December 10, 2021
I’ve seen fire, I’ve seen rain. I’ve seen dark, I’ve seen light. I’ve seen pain, I’ve seen love. I’ve seen hate. The question is, have you seen only ‘seasonal love’ or love, to one degree or another, that comes and goes? Real love knows no seasons. There is a song with these meaningful words: Give your all to me, I’ll give my all to you You’re my end and my beginning Even when I lose I’m winning ‘Cause I give you all of me And you give me all of you. Put your cards on the table, we’re both exposing our hearts risking it all, though it might be hard.
Let it be! Are you rolling in the deep of self pity and criticism without seeing that you are the only perceived enemy without recognizing that behind the false layers are the ignored angels that will give you all the heart that you are open to. Switch the attitude approach to the affirmative. Always say ‘YES’ even if it’s a no. An example would be, ‘no thank you, but I could be open another time’, or maybe, ‘nah I’m not interested, but thank you for the thought’. There are infinite ways to decline with a positive (yes) ‘no’ that makes the other feel fine.
Too many people use the other as an unconscious guinea pig for their love expression to satisfy their own gratification which ends up being less than the recipient initially expected. Using another as a ‘guinea pig’ for your mediocre, self aggrandized love is a spiritual or moral crime. Always, it’s a moment to saturate the brain with rain, meaning ‘use a brainwash’ or a clearing of all negative. Helps for a heart wash too! In any case, remember there is ‘madness in the air’, you don’t need it in you too!
Leading a life by the idiom of ‘fire and brimstone’ is hell mixed with love that is inflicting masochistic torture on the ‘brain and heart cells. There is only one possibility for sanity to exist in relationships so they don’t turn into inferiority and superiority games, so they don’t become sado-masochistic tortures. And that only possibility is in the presence of an unconditional love. Love is the greatest alchemy. Be fulfilled so that nothing more can be added to your experience. Seek to fill the ‘gap’ between your love experiences and all that is possible so that you are filled with a love that is not less than any you can imagine. Once that happens, you are forever in total love with your real self. We live in a world where nothing is certain but you finding the love within you!
Arhata~
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