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Conscious males have high standards of outer and inner conduct of being. They are not just of a higher intellect to dominate all others, but combine the heart energy with an open, sensitive mind and being in all matters with the welfare of all human beings as a top priority. The new male lets go of the past civilizations, and is dedicated to creating a path of harmonious living for all. The new male reaches for high inner intelligence regardless of what happened in his past earlier years. He is an inner athlete seeking a ‘zone’ of activity that represents what he’d like for all the world to see.

The new woman drops the old man that has represented negativity, controlling, and violence down through history. The new woman opens her heart and being totally while avoiding the traps of dependency that so shackled women in general over time. Unnecessary insecurity is no longer needed. The woman of the 21st century and beyond examines herself for the habits of clinging to inherited behaviors that stereotype her for male stereotyping going back to primitive times. The future can’t be created by clinging to the non open, discerning past.

The habit of ‘ladies first’ and opening the door for the female needs to be extended in all ways to value everyone as ‘relevant’ enough to give the highest acknowledgement of being ‘special to’ in all acts. Cultures over the years have used ‘rites of passage’ for young males of 12 or 13 to show their manhood. Garbage! Better to have a woman administer ‘rites of passage’ in how to respect and love their fellow people of all ages, and in particular females.

Compassion can have ‘karmic’ effects bringing more happiness, less stress, more reciprocity and some say, ‘it slows down the aging process’! To have empathy for anothers situation is to put yourself in their shoes ….and, maybe walk a mile in them. Compassion is the way of the Buddhists. People who are of the compassionate type actually have a ‘catalytic’ effect on those around them, or in other words it’s an invisible source of energy that spreads itself to those open to it even ever so slightly. In a way, compassion is like a drug such as marijuana that turns you on with its vital force.

However, like all things, there are other perspectives. One recent example involves one of the most compassionate and generous nations, Sweden. Sweden is known as a peaceful, tolerant and compassionate country over the decades and longer. Escapees from the Middle East violence and warring are fleeing to various countries in Europe. Word has gotten out that Sweden, up until now, has been the most receptive, and with government ‘hand outs’. Problem is the vast majority of escapees are male, and ‘high testosterone, abused, males who are teenagers and early 20’s. These males are ‘culturally deprived’ and unaware of other more sophisticated cultures. In addition, there is a lack of employment opportunities, thus a lot of time on their hands, little money, and sexually frustrated. Riots and raping by this collective are changing the face of Sweden.

Society needs stupid people! Why? Because they are manageable. Politicians and religion salesmen want ‘stupid people’ who don’t keep an open mind to inquire what’s behind their words – and of course, they deny culpability. It’s not easy for leaders of the sheeple to manipulate and dominate those who are free in their minds. It’s in the interest of those who control to protect their ‘turf’, and often it enters into greed and lack of compassion toward those who support them. Care and compassion for the well being of those that you have control over eliminates ‘stupidity’ on the part of both sides.

The intelligent person is rebellious and insists on thinking for himself. Intelligence is adverse to succumbing to control that does not meet the standards of common sense and sensitivity. The intelligent person is not stuck on unquestioned tradition, or on worshipping all ancient rhetoric. The intelligent person wants to live in the ‘now’ with an eye on the open future. The way they live in the moment paves the way for a conscious future.

The foolish are like lemmings following each other into the sea and drowning. The ‘foolish’ live in fear beyond the practical fears. The foolish follows beliefs or dogma, traditions, unquestioned authority, negative habits that they refuse to change, the same ole, same ole, etc.

People often look like what they think they are, as well as how they think and become attached to how others see them. In other words, people think they see through your mask, but from through their own mask to really get things all mixed up! People even wear clothes that indicate who they think they are. Rare is the person who is naked, or bares their real self to show who they are, and anyway those ‘majority’, unconsciously pretending to be who they are not, are unlikely to see how another is close up, or intimately. What is needed is a ‘human vacuum cleaner’ for the mind’s negative, stored junk to clear it out.

Unless one has a knack for seeing beyond how people present themselves, people are often not who they seem to be. Marriage and couplings are filled with people not really seeing who each other is, as each puts on a mask of acting who they are later seen as ‘muddled’ and sometimes, the exact opposite. Marriage can be a perfect opportunity to be in an enchanting life, or as most, two frogs stuck together who are not likely to hammer out the bad choice of mistaken self identity that contributed to chaining themselves up with the same on the other side. A ‘relationshit’ with oneself, likely attracts the same, and even if lucky enough to find a ‘high conscious partner’, the lower of the two dominates the relationship.

“In the 21st century, criminal laws against adultery have become very controversial, with international organizations calling for their abolition, especially in the light of several high profile stoning cases that have recently occurred in certain countries. Opponents of these laws cite the fact that adultery laws are a major contributor to discrimination and violence against women, as they are enforced selectively mostly against women; that they prevent women from reporting rape and sexual violence; and that they maintain social norms which justify violent crimes committed against women by husbands, families and communities.”

Many ancient laws or commandments are either not appropriate in today’s world or are too ‘cut and dry’ to not cover what they really mean. The narrow minded would say, ‘adultery is adultery’ without really understanding what they are believing. Consensual sex between adults should never be at anyone else’s expense. Creating emotional trauma in another, even if potential  or with an act that is hidden, is injurious and contemptible. Religion has little final word about it’s consequences even though ‘controllers of religion’ say they or god does.  A judgment by another can be just as hurtful.

It is love’s responsibility to not be ‘partial’ as well as not be non mindful or non heartfelt of a mutual commitment to share each others being and heart. Partial love and a loose commitment to agreements and compassion for each other is a breach of common sense and the cherishing of love. Love shared is to always carry the other’s mind and heart in whatever you do.

Love is a magnificent privilege to experience the peaks of life. Why miss it? Only two paths to touch the ‘superconsciousness’, meditation or love paths. The last half century or so is an opportunity to take either path for millions like never before.  This is due to the fact that millions are not just in the survival mode, but with infinite choices, and the time to rocket above the mundane into the blissful state of embedded love beyond the concept of ‘love with shrapnel’, or that ‘comes and goes conditional love’.

Love is a seed in everyone. Nurture love and it grows. Don’t, and it struggles. Your choice. Love, or better put, ‘beyond love’ as the rare, blessed ones know it, is a phenomenon that’s a choice-less choice beyond words that gives birth to an eternal flame within. Conditions need to be unconditional. You must let the other being inside as part of you while still having your identity, and the other needs to do the same with you. In extremely rare cases, it happens naturally, while a small percentage, with the passion to do so, can communicate in ‘dialog’ to assist each other grow into the space of a conscious merging. Why this? It’s natural for humans to want to reach the internal high spirit. Unfortunately, most ignore the journey, or use some stimulant (even sex) to reach that ‘nirvana’.

Two natural and ready partners need no instructions. The small percent of others who hold the thought of being in a pure love state or ‘beyond love’, need some of these characteristics: feeling of safety or securedness; no fears particularly of abandonment or non acceptance; relaxedness; letting go of everything, or better said detached from all; self love; etc.

At 17 years old, I gave it a thought for a few moments to attend a ‘bible factory’ for to learn the trade. Problem that came up in my mind is that I like to be honest and transparent with the freedom to explore what I have an urge to experience. Giving up too much ‘freedom’ for what I was suspicious about anyway, lost out to ‘always following freedom and truths’.

Religion kills unbridled creativity but for that which edifies the creator in the sky and supports the ‘holy book puppeteer’ speaking to all the mickey and minnie mouse’s in the pews once a week. Certainly, the master of the church or temple will stumble upon ways to help people, but so do many other organizations that exist or could be invented. Boring or bored to tears is appropriate to describe houses of religion. Those not bored are so programmed and fearful that they hanker for information stimulating their drone behavior.

In today’s world of more and better information than that of the past, no religion salesman exists who isn’t aware of all the religion characters being there for the story as archetypes that people can resonate with, and yet all but rare ones stand up on their laurels, and feed the naive minions both good information, but filled with falsities. No preacher is going to suggest people meditate because if they are intelligent, they would know that meditation detaches people from programming, makes them question, drops fears of everlasting hell, negates the necessity to hear scripture, opens up their heart to know themselves, and on and on.

There is a strong theory that the more you pay attention to a madman, the more it will fuel his condition. In a sense, these scripture babblers are ‘mad’. Clearly there is a mental neurosis, which needs to be fed to propagate more gobbledegook from holy books, be they Muslim, Christian, Hindu, or whatever. In Japan, I have read they take these religion addicts to the Zen monastery. What’s done there is very unique. No analyzing, questioning, or diagnosing happens. they put him in an isolated room far away from the monastery sitting him in a far corner.

In that isolated room, no one ever talks to him or shows any attention other that feeding him daily. Indifference is the method as a key technique. They have thrived on the attention of others before who listen to them. After several weeks of this the babbler, who has remained with himself, and no reading or stimulation, begins to know themselves. The tension and all the scripture mumbo jumbo dissipates to where they may actually start to think openly on their own.

You have to wonder when these sheeple make love if they quote scripture, or throw it out the window, and substitute what they call ‘profanity’? No man or woman of wisdom really wants to be quoted, or for that matter remembers what they said that was quoted. The average talkative person says billions if not trillions of words in his life time, and each is reflective of the time, moment, and mood in which they were said. To think someone many centuries ago sat there writing down and taking notes on what some man of religion said is completely absurd. We of course have a paper and pencil issue!