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Cheating Comedy 👀
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February 17, 2021

Life can be funny and yet like a tragic comedy from an outsides viewpoint. Like the husband who lets his wife get fatter while he makes more money so he can ‘cheat’, and she’ll ignore because she’s ‘stuck’…need I go on? Very common among, especially, ‘white collar’ males. Now, the fat wife is analogous to the masses who are not paying attention. The male is the politician and money men who are doing what they want and even if caught, wiggle out of it. It’s a cartoon game where 90%+adults in these times are letting themselves be played. Focus on racism is mostly a joke. It’s ‘male-ism’ that’s the real problem. Manipulate, dominate, and control (M,D, & C), and when males have power, however little it can be, they ‘M,D, &C’ especially when they are in a very strong position with minions to help them enforce it, then they play the hide and seek lie game.

Like the wife with the cheating husband – she’s allowed it. Those who can’t understand that they might be the kuckhold’s she’s being, and are just treading water in life while ignoring how they are being ‘man’ipulated. Sadly, it’s a bad cartoon and any God is shaking its head. The majority are being whimps and unknowingly playing into ‘the devil’s hands’.

Knowledge of one’s environment, both on personal and social levels is key to not just existing as a human vegetable. We are in the most remarkable of times as any in the history of the universe, at least as we are aware of. Now and tomorrow are ‘now’. All the possibilities for evolving both personally and socially into superhumans, rather than being idiots inspite of having all the ‘tools’ needed for what you, are now here. Those thousands of generations that came before you would love to see what they suffered and gave so much for. Are you ‘that’ or at least you are on the move toward being and if not – start right here by looking at everything as a positive opportunity.

Let go and always be letting go of all the negative that encumbers you wherever you go year after year. Start by letting go of things that occur in the moment which you want gone. It may take a few minutes, hours, or days. Internal pains may be natures way of showing you your heartfelt humanness. Always be mindful of others, but not by ways that are not sensitive. Communicate, both giving and receiving in a harmonious way. You are the sacred example of a divine spirit within a human temple called the body. You are a blessed one!

Arhata~

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Candle in the Wind 🍁
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February 5, 2021

You can open the door to a new world. What will you eventually find in that world? The old world has gone dark. Light the candle of imagination and the heart, but don’t open the door to the wind blowing in. Keep the candle of light burning in the dark while opening the door to the light within you. That candle is in you…love and awareness need not flicker or ever go out as it is the guide of the divine energy that sustains truth for a superconscious living.

Milque-toast courage is to not follow the path of evolving consciousness and is characteristic of the feeble, week, and meek minded. Don’t be a Caspar Milquetoast. A candle loses nothing if it is used to light another one. First, give to yourself for without caring for yourself, how can you care and give to others? You come first to take care of so that others can benefit.

A candle gives light to the heart of darkness. The candle in you is in the heart. It actually needs more ‘wind’ to give light. Deep breathing creates love. Someone you’re intimate with automatically opens the heart with heavier breathing. Love with someone is a form of meditation. Love is the candle that lights itself. However, if you’re waiting for love you ain’t going to get too far. Mind over matter. Life will chew you up if you don’t come out of the dark of your selfish desires. Are you really ready?

Sin is something that harms someone else, and ultimately yourself. Perhaps the greatest sin is to live a life that isn’t nurturing to the heart. Negative habits accumulate and that negativity shelters the heart like a dark house with closed shades to keep the light out. The mind often creates the shades or barriers to the opening of the heart even when someone comes with a candle of love where the mind conjures up it’s defenses usually learned as a protective devise from hurt and lack of trust. When the candle of love comes, the door must be open to the heart and if it’s open, the light of love will blow out if you don’t submit to it at the door. Surrender then happens when you have let go of the mind, letting the light come in with no barriers.

It is very easy to run from everything including your true self, becoming more difficult to wake up. One day you become locked out without knowing that you have the key. The key is always there, but you can become more blinded in self denial. Love waits for you to see and feel it. Letting go of the fear of love and realizing that it is the secret to life blossoming. Light the candle within, and let all negativity not blow the winds of fears to ‘letting go’ while accepting love overtaking you!

Arhata~
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NEGATIVE Sees negative 👎

January 20, 2021

Years ago, I made a vow to turn all situations into the positive, and I mean ALL! The result was an experience(s) which enhanced life and deep love to this time. However as a few short years went by, and even now, the ‘negative’ must be appreciated and not seen because of only seeing the positive. There are times, with what we choose to do, our experiences or interactions are such that the negative is hard to avoid, but it’s an opportunity to see how best to deal with it. Sometimes walking into the ‘fire of the negative’ sharpens how we can better see things and learn from them.

There are infinite degrees of negative and positive in people as well as knowing how to use each situation for the best outcome. Most negative people are also positive in different ways and yet some tend to focus on seeing the negative in response or reaction. They become sometimes like walking through a ‘minefield’. One wrong move, especially with the ‘slip of the lips’ can be forgiven, but sometimes never forgotten. It’s never wise to mix bad words with your bad mood. You will have infinite opportunities to change your moods, but not always the chance to take back your words.

Contrariness is a mindset that some have who seem to see everything different than who or what they are addressing. It’s a self revolving addiction that if you’re the ‘contrary one’ it’s time to ‘own it’, and make it a goal to park it where you forgot where you parked it. If you are the recipient, skillfully slip into silence and avoid conversations that spawn ‘contrariness’ as a positive and rational way to harmoniously position yourself to it. Friendships with those who are easily triggered or just naturally negative from habits that likely started in childhood need your positioning so you keep your boundaries of healthy demeanor.

The way we communicate with others and with ourselves ultimately determines the quality of our lives. One must be the change you want to see in the world. Being negative can be all consuming and self perpetuating. People make friends with their negativity and look for moments of light that actually keeps them thinking they are ok, convincing themselves that it’s just the outer world with its people that is negative. If one is psychologically healthy, there is little negativity within. Even negative on the outside is looked at as an opportunity to rise above it. Always be looking to make every moment as positive as possible, and dealing with any negativity with the best discernment of options possible. Always, a sense of humor soothes the soul for you as well as another. If your life doesn’t feel exciting most of the time, it might just be time to make meditating part of everyday life to lighten you up.

Art of White Lie 👀
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January 10, 2021

Honesty, integrity and truth are cornerstones of a loving life. All my close connections in life have no censorship that requires walking on thin ice for fear of at least a verbal reaction that downsizes any love. The unimpeded flow of communication is a never ending delight and gift that one always wants and enjoys more of. The need to censor anything is a block to the love that can be. Of course, some relationships don’t allow free thought and connections, in which case it’s best to ‘harmoniously position’ yourself to them for the best connection even if it’s just a smile.

We all find occasion to reject and resist another person. It’s a great feeling of course to not have to go through that experience, but sometimes the ‘pains’ of the lack of smooth communication can, motivate to find ways to rise about it where there are no clouds of rain and storms. We all like to put up a fight against anything we dislike. But we forget that when we decide we will resist something or somebody, either mentally or physically, we only empower the object of our resistance, either in reality or in our own minds.

When, and if, you want to enjoy the ability to influence, always start with acceptance. If you want to disarm another, begin with acceptance. If you want to encourage and empower another to change, start with acceptance. Don’t make it conditional. Otherwise it’s just resistance disguised as acceptance, and you are still trying to control them. Call it a bit of deception to land you both on a more congenial wavelength. It has a sense of a ‘white lie’. White lies are always to not hurt anyone but may make the connection on any matter more acceptable.

I’m the first to admit that having enjoyed the bliss of being not only on the same page as someone, but on the same line of thought at all times. Still experiencing anyone who is challenged by their own internal way of communication, requires an art of navigation that can certainly be worth the outcome.

Have an open heart, but a flexible attitude especially where communication is like navigating a roaring stream while avoiding the dangerous rocks in the way of moving on. In a sense, the moments of rocky communications, metastasizes or contaminates all meanings of attempted dialog. Everything is not as it seems sometimes. Well, well, well … and especially

in the world as it is now. Even most love is tainted with revolving truth and lies, but if truth be know, not the kind of love that anyone wants. To find love, always focus on the positive, sensitive truth, and leave the only lies as ones with a ‘wink’. The path of the evolving spiritual is the path of love.

Arhata~