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Fear Cripples Love 🆘

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January 19, 2022
Why make a life career out of your fears. Fear is a great thing! Practical fears that is like when crossing the street. Responsible fears are common sense. Fear is a mind killer when it’s not necessary. Always let fears be common sense or that which motivates you to do good.

I have a fear of heights. So to get over it while in NYC, I rented a one bedroom with a balcony on the 40th floor (of course, it was mostly because I wanted it). Occasionally I would lean against the rail to no avail to see if I conquered the fear. Also, many times I went to the top floor of the World Trade Center, again to no avail. Some things are not easy to ‘level out with’, but keep trying. I was on the shy side socially (internally I have no fears of closeness). To get over it, I gave many parties in my 20’s and 30’s and also was a Corporate salesman, and had to call or meet top executives frequently. It worked! 28 years I continue doing public free speech displays. The shyness disappeared long ago. However, with a group or even one person where I’m not ‘in charge’, I continue to have an introverted side. The key is to stay centered and calm and with acceptance of how you feel.

Years ago, in Venice Beach, I hosted a ‘fire walk’, which is a barefoot walk over hot coals in bare feet. The instructor was a large guy named Bear, who was an ex Marine who served 3 years in Vietnam with lots of combat experience. After the ‘fire walk’ he gave a talk and admitted he had one fear he was not able to concur. The fear of intimacy.

Real love expresses itself best when all blocks disappear. It’s a choice. Most of us experience ourselves as bodies and consider physical attraction and physical attachment as an expression of love. However the deepest love is spiritual and happens when two souls are able to walk in and through each others lives with total freedom. My experience is that there needs to be no barriers, no expectation, no desire for each other
at all
ever. There is complete transparency and each one is so strong within themselves that no matter what the other may say or do they can never be hurt. Once again this high spiritual destination is not easy to see, let alone reach, simply because our attention and energy has become almost constantly attached ‘down here’ in the physical. The mind is a barrier to all deep love
 the mind is just a tool like a computer. Above the mind is another dimension waiting for your soul to be open to it. Let go of ‘fear of intimacy’ especially!

Arhata~

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Love Only in Your Mind

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January 16, 2022
Dry love is on the paper mind only. Love is a feeling that
sometimes rivets through out our bodies. Love is the greatest
mystery and also the greatest gift known in the world! The
energy creates tears of joy and bliss as well as every positive
emotion and mind high that is available when in tune with whatever evokes it, from the smile of a new born to the tears of their passing.
Dry love has within it, tentacles of the negative when not in a harmonious positioning with the recipient. The sun helps life blossom, and yet its heat can be like a hot desert, and the lack of it like the Antarctic. Love happens in its full flowering when in tune or balance with what the receiver can handle for best expression. Too much love or too little has a karmic reaction that is evident to that. Life is a reaction or a response. A response when in tune with the giving or receiving, and a reaction otherwise. Love’s energy, is kind or in tune with the circumstances and never thrust to an unwelcoming recipient.
At the University of Southern California’s Habit Lab, they study how and why people learn to change their behavior. People who go to the gym a lot, for instance, don’t have to decide to go every time—they just sort of find themselves headed in that direction at the appropriate moment. Those many who have ‘inner conflicts’ and dark moods that they don’t wish on themselves, need to start a habit of ‘clearing the mind’ and practicing positive thoughts and feelings. An excellent helper is to find a quiet space to let go of thinking. Meditate for up to an hour a day, much like going to the gym, only
peace and awareness become the incentive. Soon it becomes a natural, ‘no mind’ decision to do it.
Once the habit becomes more than a habit, but an automatic part of life in the quest for more peace and harmony, it just breaks the fogs and disturbances of the mind to flower into an energy known as love. It begins to come into view and experience when meditation creates a ‘letting go’, and a replacement of self love slowly creates a rebirth within. Dry love, which is mostly of the mind that often comes out as self anger and confusion, recomposes itself into a ‘wet love’ or love that is ‘vertical’ rather than ‘horizontal’ or FLAT. Control the mind, but leave the heart open with no control. Life expressed best is love. You owe you the love of yourself.

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ABC ‘Always Be Clear’

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December 25, 2021
‘On a Clear Day You Can See Forever’ was a song by Barbra Streisand in the ‘late 1960’s’. With a clear mind not attached to negativities and a heart as open as it can, especially with a partner, the world will be seen with the best human insights. Did you ever say goodbye to someone knowing it would be forever? Always be seeing (ABC), and realize why you are seeing, feeling, and what are you doing to maximize that? How can you be other than a robot if you don’t know what you’re seeing and how you feel about it? Help yourself.

Clear yourself. Clean you mind of negativity. The doesn’t mean that you cannot recognize the negative, but why be negative about it so that it affects more than a few moments of your life, then move on to seeing the positive? Positivity is ubiquitous or everywhere just needing your intent and acceptance. Get it on with yourself first before anyone else. Those who also have are best to be interested in. Remove or distance everyone from you life that doesn’t have the integrity to relate to you in a positive, caring, open, relaxed manner.

To keep the lies going, you create more lies to cover them. ABL or always be lying and you will never see what’s real. You’re so much better than you know. Being lost in illusion is the time to come home and know who you really are with mind and heart connected. Let the ‘fog’ lift to see the sun of light peeking in to soon become the light to guide your way. It’s helping yourself. Life has more moments of loneliness when you’re in the dark of who you really are. Tune in and turn on the seeing within.

Friends are becoming, or have become more like hidden enemies. Rare is someone able to not name someone(s) who was close to them who will not now communicate anymore. To clear that up is like having to go through a wall of natural internal resistances which is quite reasonable when the person has not even responded to some form of light contact.

When the deepest love is spiritual, and it happens when two souls are able to walk in and through each others lives with total freedom. There are no barriers, no expectation, no desire for each other
at all
ever. The emotional and especially, the spiritual must be open with each. Loving oneself is to clear the skies and heavens above and within. If love is hard to face, may you reach the courage to ‘ABC’ to reach your inner sanctuary and experience it! Love that works best needs and open, clear mind and heart.
Arhata~

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Waking-up in a Covid World 🌏

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January 8, 2022

God sleeps! The Devil never sleeps. The Devil is always looking to fill his bank-account.

All the world’s a stage’ is the opening line in William Shakespeare’s play, As You Like It. What do I know, but that I’m part of that stage who thinks he can see what’s going on. There are exits and entrances as we are all actors. Entrances are ‘mind control’. Exits are blocked ’til death where justice relieves the mind of having to figure things out.

‘Covid domino theory’ is to get everyone vaccinated one by one until the last one has been.

Treatments for all stages of a sickness are not advised over ‘shots’, in fact they are downplayed even though they have a strong success rate. Be not in anxiety or fear, but of sound mind with researched information in all matters related to the pandemic, or is it of the devil, and a plandemic? Is it a spiritual war of psychological medicines of the mind to test whether you are awake, or fast asleep and too busy to be bothered?

Those choreographing this long world event, have paid the sharpest minds to engineer this and to counter every move not benefiting them. It’s a ‘duh’! If I were in charge of this, I’d play the devil and keep the odds in my favor as long as possible until the sleeping God’s people woke up, then I got another plan! You think the illuminati is sleeping? The Devil NEVER sleeps, he has a formidable opponent. There possibly will be billions of deaths before losing….and that may not be losing!

If I were in charge as the Devil, I’d make everyone controlled by everyone else. I’d create a virus and convince everyone that unless you listen to me, you could be a guest of the ‘funeral director’ and much sooner than if I were asleep. It would be like the ‘domino theory’. ‘’You have a row of dominoes set up, you knock over the first one, and what will happen to the last one is the certainty that it will go over very quickly. So you could have a beginning of a disintegration that would have the most profound influences.’’

Who’s going to save you, but you’re waking up? Who’s going to fix you up if you’ve fallen for the misinformation? Who’s going to pay attention to your negative mind that isn’t being the ‘doctor’ you have within to make the right decision. You can’t go on in a fog of life. No more Merry Christmas’s if you don’t believe in yourself as the embodiment place of God within. It’s time to not take life for granted, but one filled with gratitude for its many blessings. We all are on this stage before moving to the next dimension. Why be crazy and not be filled with ‘love and awareness’ for within them is the ‘truth’. Be happy and excited about being here!

Arhata~

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Suicide of Religion 🚹

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January 5, 2022

Let’s ‘cut to the chase’. The seeming secularization of America in a ‘reset’ is not a problem, unless a mindful, heartfulness into a great awakening doesn’t fill the gap of religion being downplayed into meaninglessness. Are the people up for that? Can the masses let go and raise consciousness in a positive way? Is memorizing scriptures in a holy book going to get you to some nirvana. Maybe this is nirvana, at least sometimes, yet purgatory most of the time. And, a Hell for all sometimes, but especially for those facing a karma for their ‘sins’.

Religions are a way of life, and are really a necessity at this time of human development, in a way just as adherence is to the constitution. Structures to follow are a guide or rules to maintain a harmony and a common sense for most everything. For the general population to be lukewarm about life’s written scriptures and instead following a path, leading nowhere and/or to a place no one would choose is to ‘miss the mark’ of the greatest moment in history.

Proselytizing to others is a turnoff to most listeners who have no interest in listening. Most listen because they are not accustomed to smiling and walking away as they don’t want to be ‘discourteous’. It’s a mind thing of the proselytizer to satisfy their ego at another expense of having to listen. The one that pushes a sales pitch for conversion, that in the past barely worked, becomes even further away in this fast moving, developing technological world. Needing the scripture of an ancient book, is an old attempted way to convert, while connecting to the heart and common sense is fulfilling an intent to find the quiet space within doesn’t need any ones words.

Making language a mind field for agenda of both control and money is to trick people into being lemmings without common sense intelligence. To follow an illusion that is purported to be the word of god, may well have merit for the majority, but escaping from that mixed bag of truth and lies into a world of awareness and love is a spiritual pathless path. The path of ‘open eyes, heart, and questioning’ is a religiousness apart from all ‘holy scripture’.

All religions today are stuck in a trap of ‘quicksand’ that is a destination of missing who you really are, missing the fruits of bliss and joy that come as a reward for those deeply following a wordless spiritual path. There is a technique to unhook or detach from the negatives of the past that allows an open window of seeing who you really are inside – Meditation.

Every new arrival into any society is given mother’s milk, stirred and shaken, with a sufficient dose of “America the Beautiful” or “God bless Jesus,” or whatever is needed to convey the emotional essence of the fairy tale. The child is helpless. To survive, swallowing the milk is choiceless, no matter how contaminated. The same was done to the mother when she was also small and helpless. Soon, more and more details are added to embellish the fairy tale and establish its “truth.” Every culture has its own version. One society might insist that there is a God in the sky who is superior to all and everything. That he has a “son” who can walk on water as proof of his superiority over his sheep. That his earthly lieutenants are superior to ordinary sinners. That even a God-fearing sinner is superior to any non-believer. Instead, find the deep love within as a guide.

Arhata~

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Accusatory-itis đŸ»

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December 27, 2021

Tiptoe through the ‘two-lips’ be they yours or when encountering another’s. If the emotional turbulence inside your consciousness makes it very hard for you to remain positive, connect and communicate effectively, positively and harmoniously with others, it’s time for a change! In effect you are crippled and clouded by your own emotion. Most experience this, sometimes many times a day, but refuse to see that we cripple ourselves, preferring to blame the other person. That may be why we can stay crippled for a long time, and not even realize it.

If you’re weak in saying positive words daily, use positive words deliberately throughout the day as a ‘word exercise’. We need more than physical exercise. Use thought and verbal exercise. They work even if you have to ‘fake it ’til you make it’. Avoid negativity, or if that’s not always easy to do, turn others words into a positive response … and that may be skillful silence. Always, where possible, use ‘skillful means’. Avoid the trap of others negativity by finding the best way to respond positively. Tiptoe through the ‘two-lips’ below your nose, and the others ’two-lips’ even if you have to make it a game of ‘faking it til you make it’.

Always have a ‘sense of light humor’ ready! There are some among us that literally have little or no sense of accepting any humor. I have had a friend for 30 years who is a veteran Executive Hollywood Producer, son of a NY Godfather as well as from a wealthy ‘broken’ family, but inspite of that, and who well may be the ‘most interesting man in the world’, it’s a challenge to dialog. Strangely he has the humor of an angry lion carrying a ‘machine gun’. At times he initiates negative verbal rhetoric that makes it a near impossible challenge to keep ‘sweet’. He, to anyone who knows him well, will experience him as a ‘behemoth monster’ on frequent occasion. One slip of lips that you’re offended by his remarks inevitably results in accusing anyone listening to him to be pummeled with toxic backlash (he’s a good therapy exercise though to find ways to creatively turn the conversation around to a smooth dialog, which happens sometimes, and he’s working at it).

This is a world now where it is best to examine yourself for negativity or being around it, and step outside the self-reinforcing echo chamber to ‘reset’ old ingrained ways of defensiveness that deprecates others, or more likely you as the victim of these people. Find ways to avoid them or close the ‘gap’ in communication vs one way non communication into to a smooth dialog. Accept the little voice inside you as the ‘mysterious existence controller’ urging you to let go and let god in!

Arhata~

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Cyborg 👀 Lover 🐑

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December 20, 2021
The question is, ‘what are you doing personally and with your abilities to make life more filled with love and meaning? It’s not hard to see that we can be living in a collective, evolving environment where all the merits like integrity, compassion, common sense, self love, etc. are the ‘quests’ in more and more lives. 

Instead it seems to be a ‘spit it out’ who you think you are where religion or spiritual evolvement is nonsense. Eating smoke to relax, or for whatever reason, is creating more tin pot heads. When I was 21, I would have said the same thing. For some of us, we are aware that we have no age except for the body we need to care for, and it’s not just the body, but the mind, heart, and psychological state to be as positive as is possible.

The misuse of ‘uncontrolled’ artificial intelligence for greater manipulation of humans to be like sheep in a pen. It’s happening more now than ever, using every means to confuse, and dumb down personal abilities from having the freedom to make decisions with a sharp mental and heart connection. No longer are people as free as they seemed to be in the past, especially with controls being implemented during current ‘virus/mask’ times. The making people into human robots who take orders from controllers is certainly on the drawing board as its thought that the masses won’t even realize they have become cyborgs with mechanisms introduced inside the body for someone to manipulate. Emotional and spiritual feeling will be replaced to instead make a functioning, cold, responsive-to-orders ‘zombie’ robot, in other words a ‘dumkopf’ with no freedoms.

Love will be void of most feeling (not unlike what it is for many anyway) and be a word used to manipulate and convince most as they accept a lower vibrational frequency that the brain sees as normal.

‘Relationships as a spiritual journey’ is my main interest, and as I look around with eyes even more ‘wide open’, I see that concept as a ‘WHAT’…what’s dat? Love is a loser and fear along with ‘lack of self awareness’ is the winner? Are we becoming evolving ‘cyborgs’? Are we giving ‘Ai’ free reign to increase that result? Seems obvious! It seems that all but a few accept, without questioning the conundrum that couples have on ‘going challenging personal problems’ as the norm, when really it’s laziness in not pursing a balance between the mind and heart. It’s what the apocalypse is about – lifting of the veil to expose the illusions and lies. Let more and more truths get under your skin!! Be a ‘gatekeeper’ to negativity and ignorance.

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Verbal Sucker Punching

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December 16, 2021

Ouch!

We all need more verbal, and action ‘sucker punching’, but in acts of love that come unexpectedly from someone giving with love. Life without love is a lonely life that few would want if they only knew how to reboot their own ‘self love’ that is hidden in plain access within them. My experience is that people who start a negative reaction or especially initiate a negative interaction (verbal sucker punching) are in some kind of unresolved pain within them still carried from earlier experiences.

Those who are not posed to be realistically critical of themselves are doomed to repeat negative behavior until they do depart from this planet. The best time ever to correct what’s causing mental, psychological, emotional, and spiritual barriers to loving oneself and life is to ‘initiate the intention’ to access what you need to address an acceptance of who you are at this moment, and how that blocks you from a deep self love. In a strange sense, they will be sucker punching what’s been allowed to continue to repeat as negatives within them year after year.

Loneliness, with a looming sense of depression, comes from ignoring your connection to the heart and hidden self criticism of your worth in life. That first manifests in oneself not only in repetitive, yearly sleep walking on a ‘treadmill’ that goes round and round as nothing changes. Your outlook and participation in life may have its qualities, but not for your inner happiness and joy with what’s not working for you. Are you a ‘vicim of yourself’?

What’s not working for many people you may connect with, apart from your qualities, is the negativity that you frequently shower on them. Sometimes that’s being triggered by others freedom of expression and what they regard as positive freedom of speech and interaction. Being open to positive and healthy dialog perpetuates that behavior. Why selfishly disturbs others who are sensitive to your unresolved habits manifesting themselves at others expense?

We all are ‘perfect beings’ deep within, except that most accept the ‘outer them’ as who they really think they are. With little or no care and attention given to eliminating the ‘rocks or negativity’ you are preventing them from inner joys and happiness. Couples often error in thinking that ‘lack of money’ is their overriding problem when in fact it’s their lack of ‘self love’, and a refusal to see that it’s their shorting the love within them. The mind is a wonderful thing, but only when in harmony with an open heart that closed is just a seeming immovable huge bolder to the blessings that are hidden in plain sight. Stop the mind from sucker punching yourself and others without instead showing your loving from the open heart. It’s only you who can invite lasting deep love within, or decide to stick with only the troubling mind. Love frees you for more love.

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Fire & Rain đŸ”„ đŸŽŒ

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December 10, 2021
I’ve seen fire, I’ve seen rain. I’ve seen dark, I’ve seen light. I’ve seen pain, I’ve seen love. I’ve seen hate. The question is, have you seen only ‘seasonal love’ or love, to one degree or another, that comes and goes? Real love knows no seasons. There is a song with these meaningful words: Give your all to me, I’ll give my all to you You’re my end and my beginning Even when I lose I’m winning ‘Cause I give you all of me And you give me all of you. Put your cards on the table, we’re both exposing our hearts risking it all, though it might be hard.

Let it be! Are you rolling in the deep of self pity and criticism without seeing that you are the only perceived enemy without recognizing that behind the false layers are the ignored angels that will give you all the heart that you are open to. Switch the attitude approach to the affirmative. Always say ‘YES’ even if it’s a no. An example would be, ‘no thank you, but I could be open another time’, or maybe, ‘nah I’m not interested, but thank you for the thought’. There are infinite ways to decline with a positive (yes) ‘no’ that makes the other feel fine.

Too many people use the other as an unconscious guinea pig for their love expression to satisfy their own gratification which ends up being less than the recipient initially expected. Using another as a ‘guinea pig’ for your mediocre, self aggrandized love is a spiritual or moral crime. Always, it’s a moment to saturate the brain with rain, meaning ‘use a brainwash’ or a clearing of all negative. Helps for a heart wash too! In any case, remember there is ‘madness in the air’, you don’t need it in you too!

Leading a life by the idiom of ‘fire and brimstone’ is hell mixed with love that is inflicting masochistic torture on the ‘brain and heart cells. There is only one possibility for sanity to exist in relationships so they don’t turn into inferiority and superiority games, so they don’t become sado-masochistic tortures. And that only possibility is in the presence of an unconditional love. Love is the greatest alchemy. Be fulfilled so that nothing more can be added to your experience. Seek to fill the ‘gap’ between your love experiences and all that is possible so that you are filled with a love that is not less than any you can imagine. Once that happens, you are forever in total love with your real self. We live in a world where nothing is certain but you finding the love within you!

Arhata~

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Lies of Love 💕

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December 4, 2021

It’s time to question if you’ve become a ‘sock puppet’ for those who want you to see what benefits them, but confuses you more
if you’re even paying attention? Confusion is the name of the game being played on the prey of the non thinking. Walking around with your head in the sky? Is your ego taking over for common sense? It’s happening all over the world as ‘artificial intelligence’ (Ai) is trying hard to control billions who are just ‘walking through life’ with no compass for the best directions.

Before entering any athletic endeavor in an important game, it only make sense to be fully prepared and not make a laughing stock of the lie that you were ready. The most important game in your life, IS NOT A GAME but for those who’ve made it so.

Love is not a game, yet that’s more often than not what it plays out to be. Love is a flourishing phenomenon, and far beyond an individual ‘off and on moment of pleasurable ricocheting bubbles’ of feel good moments. The definitions of ‘love’ are forever widening to fit a mental construct that bleeps in people’s minds resulting in one ‘born illusion moment’ after another.

There is a sales device called ‘Bait-and-switch’, although sometimes used in marketing to persuade the buyer into purchasing even though the service or product is replaced by something inferior. In matters of ‘initiating love’, many present an image that has little to do with everyday reality. There is an unconscious intent fueled by the desire to ‘land’ someone’s love and time where the best, but unrealistic in everyday time, false image is presented to assuredly win the attention of the one pursued. Often it’s both ‘pulling the wool’ so to speak ‘over each others eyes’ for purposes of winning possession. Leniency of truth grows if the connection is disingenuous as time goes on.

Magicians are masters in the illusion game of ‘bait and switch’. They are judged on their conscious skills. Those who fall short in their initial pledges of love are often failures on the stage of love to convince that they have found the love within them first. Love is always open to be the highest energy possible with a love connection regardless of circumstances of the future. Love has no lie within it but empathy, compassion, and the openness to always have the heart ready to give whatever and whenever possible. The greatest mystery is love, but it’s one often hidden in plain site 
. and ready to bloom within, once the ‘ground is prepared’ and the right nurturing is maintained.
Arhata~

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