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Marriage Collapse 🆘
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October 3, 2020

Love is a tricky thing – it even pretends to be more than it is without the pretender even knowing they are. One’s biology gives off excitement from the mind and physiology to create a psychological state of a temporary feeling of euphoria in the moment that either disappears or if it goes deep, it’s always there.

Love for most seems like a hamster wheel that goes round and round, but is going no where. Love is more than a Christmas present under the tree, but endless presents in the present that keeps flowing through all life’s ups and downs, sometimes as a pick-me-upper, or something to brighten your day or give you an energy boost, especially useful when you can’t spare time for a lunch break during a long day of work.

Love collapses when it’s weak and needing a more open heart as well as the acknowledgment that it’s needed with the effort to open it more. A focused intent may be enough to seize the opportunity to stop and see that miracles can come from being in the heart. Marriage is the culmination of an urge on the verge of a merge, but remembering to keep that urge there when needed for a booster shot of love. Love can end before it even really starts for many who bask in the new presences of emotional euphoria without realizing that, that state of heart feelings will be replace by where you really were with love of your inner self.

Strong love never collapses even if the union with someone appears or does end. There never is an ending of real love, but only a new beginning that always starts here and now. Does love lose all validity for how it ends? It might, of course, though endings don’t easily erase history; rather, they seal it. Wherever the beloved is the love in your heart is endless and always ready to feel the affair within your heart. Love always sees the bright side of the other even if a ‘love storm’ happens.

No one is perfect until you fall in love with them or better said when you rise in love with them through thick and thin. Love is the sixth sense which destroys all your other 5 senses. Let love for another be more important than your own happiness. Giving from the heart feeds the heart to welcome in the ‘love is in the air’. Love is the air and the breath of life. Come live in the heart and pay no rent. Love needs no mask or social distancing from itself.
Arhata~
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Broken Wings 😮

September 27, 2019
Who needs a heart when a heart can be broken? Everyone has two wings. The heart wing and the mind wing. Many don’t get out of childhood with out trauma and the majority of those just exacerbate it with more ‘pile on’s’ of bad habits that make life for themselves and those close to them unnecessarily uncomfortable. The unfixed psychological damages don’t get fixed without ‘fixing them’. For those seeking spiritual happiness, first work on the basic repairs of letting go of negatives.

So … just what does the phrase ‘broken wings’ mean? A person who has been hurt very bad and very deep emotionally. An angel with one wing still in tact symbolizes freedom and that no matter what happens, there is still hope. Love with unacknowledged ‘broken wings’ never gets off the ground for long. Love with a couple needs four wings to fly the highest into a freedom and bliss that remains forever. To really love, you have to ‘let go’ of things that create a love that flutters and gets lost in flight, even before love has really begun. Love isn’t a trip to a Safari park, or to a caged love, but a journey out of all cages to a freedom beyond words that has no limits.

Love is free, but freedom has constraints! The biggest constraint is ‘you’ unprepared for the transcending of who you are not, but are trapped into thinking you are. An escape from all impediments, begins to heal the emotional broken wings. The birth of a new dimension in experience is in you hands to choose. No choice is a choice. Doing nothing but living out your life with no introspection is to ‘bypass’ the possibilities of evolving the spirit of life and love. Giving up freedoms is not just an outer containment, but an inner prison that shuts out the growth of the emotional and spiritual. The mind alone isn’t adequate without paying attention to emotional/spiritual barriers.

Bonding as a couple if one or both of you is an ‘emotional broken wing’ from uncleared negative childhood issues is akin to ‘walking a high wire tight rope’ without the acquired skills. Things may at first seem good, but the issues come up and splatter the good intentions. Most are conditioned to accept problems, and end up moving around them while the intended love is kept together by fears, and well, by a fragile string. People are more prepared today to be smarter, and educated so as to be a success financially, but almost nothing in schools works on the emotional, spiritual life. Why? Easy. The teachers/professors are too emotionally/spiritually handicapped themselves!

Open communication, sound agreements, and the focus on a total heart opening are especially important if one or both partners have any unresolved issues from underlying fears, be it fear of abandonment, intimacy, trust, and so forth. The fear of ‘flying, uninhibited into a total freedom of love’ evades billions, and likely no one in your lineage has been able to heal into a love that transcends all blocks. Don’t let it be in competition with other priorities as rarely it is not the case. The only problem in life is missing enough love! Trying to grow roses in a garden of weeds is futile. Weeds are personal insecurity, jealousies, self doubt, miseries, ego trips, being someone you are not, and on and on.

There are no tomorrow’s for love – only now! Time to have the courage to ‘untangle’ all barriers, and staying focused on the highest possibilities. No moment in history has been better for so many to fly with uninhibited love than the moment now!

Arhata~

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