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Marriage Story 🙌

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September 25, 2021
She married him today. At the end of the wedding party, her mother gave her a newly opened bank savings passbook, with $1000 deposited in it. She told her, “My dear daughter, take this passbook. Keep it as a record of your married life. Whenever something happy and memorable happens in your new life, put some money in. Write down what it’s about next to the amount. The more memorable the event is, the more money you can put in. I’ve done the first one for you today. Do the others with your husband. When you look back after many years, you will know how much happiness you’ve both shared.’

She shared this with him after getting home. Both of them thought it was a great idea and couldn’t wait to make the next deposit! This is what the passbook looked like after a while: – 7 Feb: $100, his first birthday celebration after marriage 1 Mar: $300, she gets a salary raise 20 Mar: $200, vacation 15 Apr: $2000, She’s pregnant! 1 Jun: $1000, He gets the big promotion and so on… However, as the years went by, they began fighting and arguing over trivial things. They didn’t talk much.

They regretted that they had married the most nasty person in the world. There was no more love. One day she talked to her Mother. ‘Mom, we can’t stand it anymore. We have decided to divorce. I can’t imagine how I decided to marry this guy!’ Her mother replied, ‘Sure, that’s no big deal. Just do whatever you want, if you really can’t stand it.

But before that, do one thing remember the savings passbook I gave you on your wedding day? Take out all the money and spend it first. You shouldn’t keep any record of such a poor marriage.’ She agreed with her mother. So she went to the bank, and was waiting in the queue to cancel the account. While she was waiting, she took a look at the passbook record. She looked, and looked, and looked. Then the memory of all the previous joyful moments came back to her. Her eyes were filled with tears. She left and went home. When she got home, she handed the passbook to her hubby and asked him to spend the money before getting divorced.

So the next day, he went to the bank, and was waiting in the queue to cancel the account. While he was waiting, he took a look at the passbook record. He looked, and looked, and looked. Then the memory of all the previous joyful moments came back to him. His eyes were filled with tears. He left and went home. He gave the passbook back to her. She found a new deposit of $5000. And a line next to the record: ‘This is the day I realized how much I’ve loved you throughout all these years. How much happiness you’ve brought me.’ They hugged and cried, putting the passbook back into the safe.

*Marriage is not a game, it’s not easy but it can be beautiful.* *You will fight and argue,* *this is normal, because the both of you came from* *different* *background* *different homes and you both were raised by* *different parents, beliefs and moral*. *So you cannot expect that everything you say will be accepted by your spouse without their opinion being tendered first. So before you give up, think back to the good times and to what brought you together in the first place (author unknown).

Why settle for a normal marriage? In a real marriage two become as one and yet keep their individuality. It’s my experience and observation that endless bliss and joy are the blessings for the couple who individually let go of all negatives and stay in their hearts. The ultimate meditation is two people loving themselves together. It is a place beyond love and is eternal.
– Arhata~

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How’s it Working for You?

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How’s It Working for You? 🤷‍♂️
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September 6, 2021

Are you meeting a rise in consciousness to make it a better World. Are you at least half way there, or living on an invisible or empty prayer … or maybe just taking it day by day like all the animals of the world? What’s your purpose? Are you cheating a God that you believe in, or if there was really one? Are you still stuck in the mud of blaming what’s happened to you since you can remember?

Get over the bumps and smooth out the road ahead! Do you listen to your heart, or is it just something you’re counting on being there? Maybe it’s multifunctional, and also operates as a guide for higher consciousness that the mind can only fein but never reach. The other side is coming for you sooner than you think. Best time in millions of years is now. Hard to believe with all the shams going on, and then there is Artificial Intelligence (Ai) in Silicon Valley, China, and wherever minds can be found to support their ‘mind games’ and robotizing people into sheeple. No… it is the best time! How’s it working for you?

Time to ratchet down those dreams of mounds of money, and what it will buy. All the time being educated in our primary and higher learning schools were really inoculating, intoxicating, ‘indoctrinating’ so so miseducations. Some people really think they’re smart, maybe successful. All illusion mostly. No one has a mentality that encompasses even 1% of the knowledge available. Can you wrap your head around that? It’s true, and even the fraction that anyone has knowledge of, is not knowing. Knowing is like knowing the Sun is the key to life! Call it ‘god’s heater’, or maybe if you drop programmed indoctrination beliefs for a moment, it just might be the ‘Sun of God’? Maybe even more than that?

How is your belief system working for you? All beliefs have doubts along with them, if you didn’t know that. Don’t want to give you a mental breakdown over that reality. That’s why you need ‘faith’ in religions. Faith in your beliefs that they may be true. It’s all about the voices in your head. Ever wonder what the heart feels? It is much more valuable than the mind which hasn’t been cleaned of the many voices in a long time. Actually, ever! Wars are fought in fear and the mind. The heart doesn’t like the adversaries of the negative. It’s a male energy thing of walking into fire for love’s belief. Love isn’t a belief. It’s a knowing that is the light of life. Seems that might just be what’s going to make life working better for everyone, and individually too. The ‘best life’ is to always look to inner evolve, and find it’s really working better for you!
Arhata~
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Jealousy in Mind & Heart🚨

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August 28, 2021

Jealousy can be a teacher … IF you listen to the teacher! Jealousy is a hidden reaction habit that may stay dormant in anyone for an unknown time, until there is something wanted and you are unable to see that it’s not yours, but someone else’s. Getting lost inside your head and heart, and setting fire to the uncontrolled emotions is a red light that arises as a warning that you need to school yourself on letting go of the negative memories embedded within your mind and that has metastasized throughout the false you keeping you from seeing the beauty within.

Newton’s third law of motion states; “what goes up must come down.” Toilet seats are not exempt from the laws of physics.There is a very common riddle on Rain that it comes down but never goes up. But the one that goes up and never comes down can be a person’s age.

Anger, rage, jealousy may come up, and then down but hidden for the next trigger situation, unless one finds ways to bring up the love and consciousness within.

Getting lost inside your head and heart, and setting fire to the uncontrolled emotions is a red light that you need to school yourself on letting go of the negative memories embedded within your mind. Let the heart, mind, and lips be free, but with consciousness. Why be a ‘broken wing’ person who can heal, but decides to hobble between fires of jealousy, angers, rage, and infinite negatives as well as wanting to possess what you cannot. There are many breathing techniques to help letting go and deprogram to a more positive frame of mind and heart.

A quick one is a 6-7 minute reprogrammer. Call it ‘Positive Enhancer’. Standing relaxed with eyes closed, inhale slowly as deep as you can from the bottom of the belly, then slowly let it go all the way down. Reverse the process. Now, while doing it, continue silently saying – ‘I’m moving into positivity, deeper and deeper into positivity, I’m moving into positivity, deeper and deeper into positivity. When finished, stand, sit, or lie down for a few minutes and just be the watcher of whatever comes up. Do this for a month once or twice a day and my experience is that you will be more in love with your thoughts of positivity in your mind, heart, and actions.

As a supplement, do a 1/2 hour to an hour breathing meditation, while always being the watcher of whatever comes up. For great instructions, get one of the Osho books on meditation. Move on, but first ‘move in’ and find out why moving on isn’t enough without ‘cleaning the inner house’ into a ‘home’!

Arhata~

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TANTRIC INTIMACY 💚 🙏 ❤️

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TANTRIC INTIMACY 💚 🙏 ❤️
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August 25, 2021
Beyond the sexual experience is the ancient energy merging between two people beyond what is thought of as love. It is a rare happening when two souls meet and release all negative thoughts, and experience in who they really are, and in pure consciousness continually. In a sense it’s a completion of two souls into one. It’s been said, that they become ‘soulmates’. In fact, it’s beyond a soulmate which is often two souls doing their best or soul mating with unresolved issues, but coupled with a mutual effort to make it together inspire of their differences.

Two are merged in mind, heart and soul in an alchemy with no gap or unresolved issues between them. Life presents enough issues, and no one is immune from whatever arises. The best life is alone in a sense of enlightenment, however as rare as it is in this world, the couple in a tantric intimacy where two heads, two hearts, and two souls merge into an alchemy of being a mirror of wonderment when seeing each other. No mind is the door.

In this most ‘advanced’ moment if life, the freedoms to unlock the ‘box of choices’, and to see that we are free to see deeper and deeper love as steps to evolve within. All of life, since the beginning, has been but rarely predetermined for our spiritual growth with few if any choices for inner growth. Insufficient love between people was met with usually one choice in a darker world. The lights of love have been turned on for those willing to take the blinders of the past off to see that by letting go you will raise the vibration to attract the hand of one to fly to greater heights of consciousness.

The quest to find deeper love and finding it is met with an enduring bliss that you have reached to the deepest and highest imaginable. The depth and height you reached will always follow and enrich your life. You have met the illimitable essence of life. The fire in one’s heart will be that light of opportunity to reach the inner stars that seemed unreachable for time immemorial. There are no barriers, but the barrier of the mind’s imprisonment of past luggage. Each can now have and forever experience the love and consciousness within. Using meditations as a helper, is to find life’s blessings to clear the negatives of the past and open a whole new world of a heart with no limits.

Think and BE positive to achieve what you desire! If you create positive thoughts about yourself, you will feel good, and your self-esteem will be strengthened, and if you create negative thoughts, you will feel depressed, with low self-esteem. The mind opens up the way to the self. By creating the right type of thoughts you can open up your inner potential again, and rediscover that as people we are full of positive qualities. May a tsunami of love fill your life!
Arhata~

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Dick, John, Peter & Sue

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✅ Dick, John, Peter, & Sue ✅
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August 22, 2021
Can you imagine why anyone would want to name their boy Sue? Of course, each is more than their name, and it was likely given from the heart by the mother and perhaps father. So in a way, it’s a ‘memory’ to carry beyond time on earth. One ‘David or one Jane’ is very unique from someone else bearing that same name. Our name was given with the intent of meaning, however that doesn’t mean one can’t choose an additional one that may more fit who you see yourself as.

Names can become ‘sacred’ regardless of many others, even in your circle, who have the same name. Names are transferable to pets. I had a golden poodle when I lived with my partner years ago in NYC, that we named Barron. Years later, how were we to know that our President and his wife would have a child and name him after our dog’s name? One has to have a sense of humor to go through the journey of life.

Back a few years ago when I was doing my free speech display on the Venice Boardwalk (in LA), as well as my meditation groups called the LA LetGo, I decided to meet more people by offering them a new name from the Sanskrit (India), and an explanation of its meaning on paper. A few example; 1-Darshan/or Darshana (f) is the name of a God/Goddess in Hindu mythology meaning ‘vision’; 2-Deepak means a lamp shining brightly; 3-Indira means beauty or splendid; 4-Jaya means victory & victorious. I still hear occasionally from ones who still uses use the name. Using a new name, especially with a spiritual meaning, slowly merges one into a new sense of being and identification. We are not who we think we are anyway, and a new name can be a stepping stone to letting go of the attachments to the unwanted past.

We have been taught to hide, not to trust or to be unnecessarily paranoid, that life is naturally negative, etc. These things have been put into the unconscious from childhood. They have become part of our mental DNA, and because of them we go on hiding who we really are. Reality is just the opposite: you are not naturally bad, but naturally good. Nobody really wants to do bad, and if somebody is doing bad it simply means that he has been a victim of circumstances and situations, likely from childhood, so you have been forced to do that. No thief is happy to be a thief and no murderer is happy to be a murderer. They have been forced. In fact they are Victims; they have been compelled by the logic of situations. They have been brought up in such a way that their whole being has been poisoned.

Time to ‘let go’ of past demons and traumas, and move into a new and real you!Make it a point: stop affirming negativities and start affirming positivities. Life will blossom within a week and give you a new, fresh perspective.
Arhata~
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It’s the Vibe!

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It’s the VIBE! 🌹

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August, 13-2021

From a baby through whatever age there is a ‘vibe’ with others that we connect with. It manifest itself sensitively in you perhaps mentally, emotionally, physically, spiritually or whatever. Hopefully that vibe is one of lovingness and not the negatives that so many carry by not resolving and converting them to a more positive vibe. Coming into this world from pre birth, it’s the mother’s vibe and experiences that set the journey to the train of life. One great thing about being a human being vs an animal is that we all have the wherewithal, especially in this technologically and informationally advanced world, to reinvent ourselves to a higher consciousness, and apart from liabilities.

Having not settled down into a family life, as my 5 siblings have, I chose and continue to, choose the life of a ‘free spirit’ while valuing heart felt love as the light on that path. Life lived with the ‘under-tow’s of the heavy current of the changing directions, is akin to hidden unresolved issues sweeping one into the endless struggle of the changing weathers from calm to stormy of the ocean of happiness and despair. It likely will consume most hope of reaching a state of joy and blissfulness.

The vibe is sacred! Even food gives off a ‘vibe’, especially when ‘going out’ to eat. To digress a bit on the vibe here, I like Mexican food, and at one time I considered opening one with a couple of successful partners in a NY Mexican restaurant. I got so good at sampling many Mexican restaurant’s food that I could even look in a Mexican restaurant window and ‘vibe’ how good the food would be! Another example are dogs, being popular, give out a ‘vibe’ as to their friendliness. Everywhere in everything, there is a ‘vibe’ of intuition likely from experience that dictates our response or reaction.

Finding a ‘vibe’ of someone can be a knack. Cultivate that knack if you’re not pleased with the vibes you spend too much time with. Try looking all around, trying to find the blissful, and the positive. Be filled with it, and in that moment forget everything. Open your heart and be filled with it. Be one with it. You will become fragrant with it as well as becoming more aware and discerning to a vibe that you want to be with.

Become friends with any negative thoughts and receive them as a thought to be accepted and analyzed for the virtues of that unrecognized hidden within. They are vibes for a reason. Avoiding all negative is not a positive approach. Being with an open heart and having a blissful vibe within you will guide your journey through all situations. Make life a great vibe!

Arhata~

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Scam Dam Dum

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August 11, 2021
To be ‘spiritual’ is to use your heart, common sense, awareness, and discernment while seeing that YOU and everything around you is NOT as it seems! The ‘spiritual experience’ is one of the mind and heart with its pearls of qualities such as truths, love, compassion, trust, sensitivities, etc,. The spiritual path is one not to use negatives to further your perceived desires. The path is always looking for truths and being the finder of them. The path of the ‘seeker’ is to rise out of the illusions into the ‘finder’.

In this changing modern world with ‘artificial intelligence (Ai)’ entering our lives everywhere we look, there are more and more controls, while personal freedoms are shrinking. Complementing the methods in use of ‘dumbing down’ people through fear and ignorance, they are primed to submit for control and manipulation by the fake elite. Both sides are ignoring the 7 Deadly Sins, and especially always being committed by those who seek personal benefits regardless of consequences to others.

Few understand the ‘brainwashing/dumbing down’ into Farm Animals (Sheeple) that is ‘step by step’ being implemented. Question, using logic and common sense to see the scam, AND Remember for a scam to be successful there HAS TO BE truth to it to cover up the lies. Exaggerate the small truth, and as Hitler’s Minister of Propaganda, Joseph Goebbels said, ‘tell a lie enough times and people will eventually believe it! Are you going down? Down into the sewer of mind control into just a body with little freedom of choices?

An earlier example of this were Medicine shows that were touring acts (traveling by truck, horse, or wagon teams) that peddled “miracle cure” patent medicines and other products and were common in the United States in the nineteenth century, especially in the Old West (They usually promoted “miracle elixirs” (sometimes referred to as snake oil), which, it was claimed, had the ability to cure disease, smooth wrinkles, remove stains, prolong life or cure any number of common ailments. Hmmm, could the same thing happen today only on a global level with different techniques of mind control?

Have a life affirmative philosophy with an open heart that encourages celebration, and meditation. This healthy, life affirmative attitude may well create a rainbow paradise for you. Always be aware that as a human vulnerable to misinformation, look for the scam not only on the outside, but see that it begins within. Keep the `three `L`s `, “Love, life, and laughter” as best friends to partner with.
Arhata~

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Popsicles in the Sun

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August 5, 2021
Using the wrong word today in the wrong place to the wrong person, the wrong way, etc., is likely to go over like a melting popsicle in the sun. Examples would be the ‘A’ word, the ‘B’ word, the ‘C’ word, the ‘D’ word, the ‘F’ word, the ‘G’word (gullible), the ‘H’ word, the ‘I’ word, skipping ahead, the ’N’ word, now ‘R’ word, etc. Another letter that seems under attack for misuse, sadly, is the ‘L ’word’!
‘Love’, or at least that which doesn’t stand the many trials of life, melts away sometimes in anger when seen that expectations were or not being not fulfilled. Life can be a sticky, endless situation to hide from the drip side of who you are. Time today to fess up to where all the obstacles in life are coming from, not to mention a healthy lack of solutions. Even the devil knows it’s you with clouds in the sky of your brain. Tell yourself, are you really happy in this challenging world? If it’s not a clear yes, then who better to fix it than you. You’re running out of time!
Breaking up needs to be with love and kindness instead of making it a sticky or traumatic abuse of love. The initiator of any breakup needs to use full acknowledgement of empathy and compassion. Love has its downside when allowed to sour with lack of attention, particularly with little help from those not adept at receiving and giving due to mental and heart roadblocks. Always come out of the shadows where the best of you is hidden waiting for discovery.
Getting high on stimulants rather than the love within, or with your partner, makes about as much sense as a
pregnant mother looking to get high on booze and smokes ignoring the negative
karmic effects on the unborn while later wondering where they came from. Not
rocket science, that more than one is being fed who will likely grow up with a predisposition to pass on the liabilities acquired so thoughtlessly. Imagine buying a new car with used parts for a discount that makes for recurring troubles while wondering what’s happenin’.
Sustainable inner happiness begins with putting the best things in the mix. The good news is anyone can fix whatever is wrong with today’s techniques and information, and they are free! Problem is, most of the troubled are too busy struggling in life to stay afloat of being caught between the marginal good times and the persistent dark times fighting for equal time. Usually with that is a lack of inertia to stop and look at what the problem is. Of course, ignoring that it’s them! A great piece of wisdom is in this Chinese proverb -“Learning is like rowing upstream: not to advance is to drop back.”

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Love’s Value

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Love’s Value

July 31, 2021
There’s something in the way you used to roll your eyes that brings tears to my eyes all these years later. Love’s value is very high in the beginning, but often loses its energy in a short time. Have high love values for yourself and especially from whose love you have chosen to receive. Your love and it’s receiving are not a ‘fruit’ that deteriorates’ in a short time. Love is the energy that drives the world to its greatest health, as lack of it though causes the sadness in the conditions that we see all around us struggling endlessly to reach higher than it’s become conditioned and acceptant too.

Walking in to love is too often the beginning of troubles that cloud the heart and mind to rise above. The broken heart, as sad as it can be, is also an opportunity over time to heal, especially as you nourish your heart with the love that still lives within, but choose to be a fleeting memory that always seems locked in the day before.

Love is often undervalued and maybe falls to an obligatory love exercise. Each day we all need to recharge our spiritual battery, otherwise the light of our consciousness becomes dim, thoughts become fuzzy, and decisions are impregnated with doubt. There is comfort in the truth of love. Love is the best place to find yourself. Looking for happiness with out an open heart is like walking through a path of endless boulders. Without a heart that censors the negative we are faced in a world surrounded by one unrelenting obstacle after another.

Meditation connects us to both sources of power – that’s why meditation is the way to access the real vitamins and the minerals that spirit craves. The vitamin of pure love and the minerals of truth and wisdom are bequeathed to only the human. Love is like an invisible and free medicine. Love becomes a meditation when the barriers of the mind are let go of. Love lost is only the ‘love of’….that appears lost, but in fact the nourishment of the heart within is ever lasting making you more of a divine being.

Love that has fear in it, will be love that is ‘gone with the wind’ leaving the mental ashes to commiserate with. Like it or not, with NO excuses, everyone has/had the opportunity to break the dam holding back love energy to fill the heart continuously with an endless supply of that golden energy. Give a damn and open up the flood gates! It doesn’t matter whether you get the love back or you don’t get love back or the loved one is here or not here, you can love anyway and keep the kindness. You can always love someone even if they aren’t here in person. It’s really a joy and blessed life elixir to have. Cherish love!

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Partner’s Last Partner

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Partner’s Last Partner 💕
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September 1, 2021

Life has a continuing resume of your personal experiences. Life is not an empty parking lot. We each go through life with love of one, or maybe many. The first love likely was a parent or two starting with mom. From there, moments of love are fleeting, lasting ’til death is a parting, or serial loves lasting beyond the physical connection. In this modern world, many have loved more than one. Or, perhaps, as a partner once said to me on a walk to the Santa Monica cliffs over the ocean, ‘whomever you’ve been with, I’m the same one who is always with you’.

Having facilitated many different kinds of meditation techniques for clearing the mind of attached negatives and traumas, the greatest meditation with no less than the highest everlasting bliss is from two souls connecting and merging inside each other where you become one. You never keep things from yourself about your thoughts and activities, obviously. That same attitude is likewise in an authentic merging with a partner. If you are, and they are not, interested or committed to that, there is little hope in bringing a deep soul connection up to speed where there is not traction to that commitment.

Love is meditation. Meditation, like love, has little value if you are not willing and doing what’s going to open you wide. It’s like when I use to work out in gyms in NYC or Venice Beach, the majority gave little effort to working out, but called it a ‘workout’. Love goes to sleep with the best of intentions to keep it awake, but leaving your guard down will result in having the rug pulled out from under you, and the splendidness of a superconscious love.

Knowing a prospective partner’s past relationships for quality, be it a parent or romantic relationships, is imperative and a good benchmark for what to expect in all but rare cases.

Always, there are rare exceptions, if there is a focus and dedication even if it’s a ‘march into hell for a heavenly cause’. Meditation or love is an individual matter, and the commitment from the heart that continues to open is key. Always, there is no end to real deep love, and the beginning is always in the moment. Tune in, turn on and keep the heart open. Relationship yoga is to use everything as an opportunity to light the fires of love.

As a wisening woman friend told recently that she created this quote in her high school years, ‘’wisdom is the practical application of knowledge’’. I might add that it can become ‘knowing’, and let love be your guide into the arms of wisdom.
Arhata~

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