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April 1, 2022
Everything is perfect, especially given what’s been put into it. Real perfection comes to the ones who are open to learning and self introspection. When we realize having made a mistake, we usually have negative thoughts about ourselves. This is because we expect the best out of ourselves, i.e., we expect ourselves to be perfect in everything we do. But this expectation prevents us from taking naturally the learning from the situation. We need to realize that perfection does not come by thinking about it but by being busy in whatever we are doing. With every action of ours comes learning and this feeds the path to perfection.

Life can be beautiful, but it seems, at the moment, to be a global discombobulating mess?
Why welcome children, young people and the unborn to a male dominated, sick, angry, dystopian and tyrannical world of 2022 and continuing? Do wars and killing ever stop? Greed and power apparently don’t as the masses continue being happy with the elevating mind control. Will positivity and optimism free us by the 22nd century, or the 23rd century, or will billions even make it out of this decade?

Self evolvement must meet and survive the tsunami of unmoderated technological marvels that are seemingly racing beyond humans capability to control for preservation of human life and its evolving. Is this the real ‘racism’ racing us into oblivion to really be concerned about? Are we collectively promoting, by our silence, of the Good, Bad, and Ugly? Friendship and relationships are the honey of life. You decide to be open or not. So what!? Let yourself do whatsoever you feel, but with awareness and common sense discernment

The internet can be a valuable tool for opening the mind, but one should remember that you have an ‘internet’ within that I call the ‘innernet’, and it has the real wealth of knowledge and knowing of who you really are behind the ‘net or facade’. It’s not about being bad or to be good, but to be whole and healthy. To be whole is to be healthy and to be healthy is to be holy. Your ego does not want to be whole. The ego only exists in a split. Conflict is its food and nourishment. The ego of the good and the bad. Humans typically divide against themselves. Real love of self sees and feels the whole making no judgment, but what comes from the heart and awareness. Let go of the struggle between good and bad, find the middle ground where good and bad disappear into the mind/heart awareness.

February 14, 2022
Use me, but don’t abuse me! What a gift to be able to say to someone, ‘use me’, and mean it from the depths of your heart. Is the statement greater than saying ‘I love you’!? To some one I have trust with, I always say, ‘assume the best’ in anything I say or do or not, and you’ll have made a correct choice over 99% of the time. Some would say that’s a risky thing to say or to assume. It’s only risky for those who want it to be, and don’t know themselves enough. If you can make it work for you, it’s safe to give to another.

Most would say it’s too radical and unworkable, and even dangerous. Actually, if you’re in ‘heart and mind synchronicity with someone, it’s a wonderful feeling and works! Perhaps another way or word to use is ‘devotion’. In another sense it’s to be in communication or communion. In football terms, it’s the quarterback passing to a perfect catch by the receiver.

The world, life, love, devotion, and everything works best when all is in perfect harmony. We exist because of it. Moving the moon or sun, etc., out of position, and life won’t be witnessed in no one ever being here. Of course, what’s harmony for one, may not be the same for another. People in general have obstacles in their former lives from the beginning that they cling to rather than using available techniques that are easily available finally to disconnect from the barriers to a more perfect inner insight. The key is to be in awareness and make the best possible decision all the time in every circumstance. That includes ‘staying out of harms way’ and if not, be alert and make the best choices.

Higher than love is to be in a position of devotion whether it emanates from you or another. The ideal is to be in synchronicity with each other with giving and receiving. Happiness comes of its own accord then, even in moments that are ‘unhappy’, you will know that the sun will always shine soon as the rain or storms just make you appreciate the pleasant moments all the more. A heart filled with love has the fuel within to transcend all barriers. Be devotional to yourself first, mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually. The secret in filling the heart and your whole being devotionally, is to use the ‘breath of life’ as a ‘tool gift’, and to see meditation as the ‘use’ that says, “Use Me’’!

Popsicles in the Sun
August 5, 2021
Using the wrong word today in the wrong place to the wrong person, the wrong way, etc., is likely to go over like a melting popsicle in the sun. Examples would be the ‘A’ word, the ‘B’ word, the ‘C’ word, the ‘D’ word, the ‘F’ word, the ‘G’word (gullible), the ‘H’ word, the ‘I’ word, skipping ahead, the ’N’ word, now ‘R’ word, etc. Another letter that seems under attack for misuse, sadly, is the ‘L ’word’!
‘Love’, or at least that which doesn’t stand the many trials of life, melts away sometimes in anger when seen that expectations were or not being not fulfilled. Life can be a sticky, endless situation to hide from the drip side of who you are. Time today to fess up to where all the obstacles in life are coming from, not to mention a healthy lack of solutions. Even the devil knows it’s you with clouds in the sky of your brain. Tell yourself, are you really happy in this challenging world? If it’s not a clear yes, then who better to fix it than you. You’re running out of time!
Breaking up needs to be with love and kindness instead of making it a sticky or traumatic abuse of love. The initiator of any breakup needs to use full acknowledgement of empathy and compassion. Love has its downside when allowed to sour with lack of attention, particularly with little help from those not adept at receiving and giving due to mental and heart roadblocks. Always come out of the shadows where the best of you is hidden waiting for discovery.
Getting high on stimulants rather than the love within, or with your partner, makes about as much sense as a
pregnant mother looking to get high on booze and smokes ignoring the negative
karmic effects on the unborn while later wondering where they came from. Not
rocket science, that more than one is being fed who will likely grow up with a predisposition to pass on the liabilities acquired so thoughtlessly. Imagine buying a new car with used parts for a discount that makes for recurring troubles while wondering what’s happenin’.
Sustainable inner happiness begins with putting the best things in the mix. The good news is anyone can fix whatever is wrong with today’s techniques and information, and they are free! Problem is, most of the troubled are too busy struggling in life to stay afloat of being caught between the marginal good times and the persistent dark times fighting for equal time. Usually with that is a lack of inertia to stop and look at what the problem is. Of course, ignoring that it’s them! A great piece of wisdom is in this Chinese proverb -“Learning is like rowing upstream: not to advance is to drop back.”

Tolerate Life 🆘
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June 28, 2021
The most tolerant is God. Millions are not ‘tolerant’ of God, or what other’s viewpoints of a god are. To ‘tolerate’ is ‘to put up with’ or not be ‘intolerant’, and to accept whatever you have little apparent choice over. When ‘impatience’ rears its head, it’s time to seek patience with a positive tolerance. Tolerating one’s attitude is always a good start. It’s common to not ask yourself if even if you create reasons for others to have to tolerate you – is life having to?

It’s always ‘show time’ – are you putting on your best and doing the best to deal with all things requiring ‘a review’ of your attitude. Is it the best available? If you’re just tolerating your thoughts and feelings about yourself, step up and detach from them so they are ‘there’ but not controlling your life of having to tolerate them. Remember, not everything can be changed by the mind, somethings need a strong heart opening. Oxygen deprivation in the mind and heart can happen if you’re not letting go of what ails you from the past. Techniques of breathing will minimize and disconnect that which you have had to tolerate within you every day.

Park your ‘negative, repressed tolerance’ in a space where awareness and discernment of best positive options lie. Let go of the ego! Get the ego out of the way or it’s the same old thing – you versus me, yours versus mine, etc., – intolerance. Tolerance is based on going beyond the superficial things that divide us. It’s the result of turning within and coming to know the Self. If I can deal with my own ego, then my own anger can be resolved. With intent to rise above moments of intolerance you will develop a spiritual tolerance that cultivates an inner wisdom. Turn within and see the patience that can win over impatience. Resistance to ‘inner development’ is the norm for most. You’re not most!

If I am unselfish and honest in my heart, and am concerned about others’ needs, then I will be full enough to give. ‘I should be understood’ changes to – ‘I should understand.’ Not ‘They should change’ but ‘I will give what’s needed’!

The key factor to performing well in life and in every arena is the ability to control the quality and quantity of your “internal dialogue”, and that goes on between the ears while filling and unlocking the unused heart. Live in peace within, and not in disconnected pieces. Seek to be in love and not just tolerate up and down feelings within? Love yourself as much as possible and you will love another likewise. Real love is endless. ‘’We have two lives, and the second begins when we realize we only have one’’. – Confucius
Arhata~