January 16, 2022
Dry love is on the paper mind only. Love is a feeling that
sometimes rivets through out our bodies. Love is the greatest
mystery and also the greatest gift known in the world! The
energy creates tears of joy and bliss as well as every positive
emotion and mind high that is available when in tune with whatever evokes it, from the smile of a new born to the tears of their passing.
Dry love has within it, tentacles of the negative when not in a harmonious positioning with the recipient. The sun helps life blossom, and yet its heat can be like a hot desert, and the lack of it like the Antarctic. Love happens in its full flowering when in tune or balance with what the receiver can handle for best expression. Too much love or too little has a karmic reaction that is evident to that. Life is a reaction or a response. A response when in tune with the giving or receiving, and a reaction otherwise. Love’s energy, is kind or in tune with the circumstances and never thrust to an unwelcoming recipient.
At the University of Southern California’s Habit Lab, they study how and why people learn to change their behavior. People who go to the gym a lot, for instance, don’t have to decide to go every time—they just sort of find themselves headed in that direction at the appropriate moment. Those many who have ‘inner conflicts’ and dark moods that they don’t wish on themselves, need to start a habit of ‘clearing the mind’ and practicing positive thoughts and feelings. An excellent helper is to find a quiet space to let go of thinking. Meditate for up to an hour a day, much like going to the gym, only
peace and awareness become the incentive. Soon it becomes a natural, ‘no mind’ decision to do it.
Once the habit becomes more than a habit, but an automatic part of life in the quest for more peace and harmony, it just breaks the fogs and disturbances of the mind to flower into an energy known as love. It begins to come into view and experience when meditation creates a ‘letting go’, and a replacement of self love slowly creates a rebirth within. Dry love, which is mostly of the mind that often comes out as self anger and confusion, recomposes itself into a ‘wet love’ or love that is ‘vertical’ rather than ‘horizontal’ or FLAT. Control the mind, but leave the heart open with no control. Life expressed best is love. You owe you the love of yourself.
