Partner’s Last Partner

September 1, 2021

Life has a continuing resume of your personal experiences. Life is not an empty parking lot. We each go through life with love of one, or maybe many. The first love likely was a parent or two starting with mom. From there, moments of love are fleeting, lasting ’til death is a parting, or serial loves lasting beyond the physical connection.  In this modern world, many have loved more than one. Or, perhaps, as a partner once said to me on a walk to the Santa Monica cliffs over the ocean, ‘whomever you’ve been with, I’m the same one who is always with you’.

Having facilitated many different kinds of meditation techniques for clearing the mind of attached negatives and traumas, the greatest meditation with no less than the highest everlasting bliss is from two souls connecting and merging inside each other where you  become one. You never keep things from yourself about your thoughts and  activities, obviously. That same attitude is likewise in an authentic merging with a partner. If you are, and they are not, interested or committed to that, there is little hope in bringing a deep soul connection up to speed where there is not traction to that commitment.

Love is meditation. Meditation, like love, has little value if you are not willing and doing what’s going to open you wide. It’s like when I use to work out in gyms in NYC or Venice Beach, the majority gave little effort to working out, but called it a ‘workout’. Love goes to sleep with the best of intentions to keep it awake, but leaving your guard down will  result in having the rug pulled out from under you, and the splendidness of a superconscious love.

Knowing a prospective partner’s past relationships for quality, be it a parent or romantic relationships, is imperative and a good benchmark for what to expect in all but rare cases. 

Always, there are rare exceptions, if there is a focus and dedication even if it’s a ‘march into hell for a heavenly cause’. Meditation or love is an individual matter, and the commitment from the heart that continues to open is key. Always, there is no end to real deep love, and the beginning is always in the moment. Tune in, turn on and keep the heart open. Relationship yoga is to use everything as an opportunity to light the fires of love.