Love enriches the soul. Love is free with no constraints or hidden agendas.
The soul wants more love and seeks to be where it can be found in the outer. However, ‘putting the cart before the horse’ is to do the last step before the first one. The first one in a love is to see and feel it within. There is no self censorship in real love of oneself, nor with another in a love union.
First, an example of censorship – Couples have spoken or unspoken rules/agreements of what they won’t do. One or both of them breaks the agreement. Because the one who breaks ‘rules’ has to hide with guilt what was done while assuming their partner can’t handle it, and ‘repercussions’ are inevitable. They both are guilty of censorship. One lies and the other is reactive. If they were always ‘uncensored’ and open to dialog with no ‘repercussions’ necessary, there would be no need for guilt and dire consequences.
One can be and have a lot of things as well as experiences regardless of your faults and unresolved issues within, but one thing for sure, if they are not detached from into a smooth and balanced inner self only, the likely love available will be that of a bumpy road with ‘chuck holes, slippery spots, dangerous cures, and every unavoidable problem interspersed with good and bad times.
A deep love relationship has no secrets. One is always in the head and heart of the other making choices as one while respecting and acknowledging each individuality. They carry the touch of ‘grace’ each within them. This ‘Devine couple’ always looks to serve the other from the heart. The one heart keeps the spoken and unspoken agreements with ‘well balanced’ people
Love is not based on a relationship only. You need to find out if love can originate from within you. The seed of love is within you. Whenever you are alone, try to look inside and see whether you can be overflowing with love when no one is around. Can you be loving while alone? It is definitely possible as it is then with a ‘beloved’. Experience meditation to sprout the love within that will empty the attachment to barriers that follow you. In my experience, the greatest meditation is the deep love between two people. Separate the clouds within and allow the sun of love to flow through.
