July 31, 2022
Always count your change, it never runs out! Change happens of its own accord but always each has the opportunity to change for the better. Although that ‘changing’ today seems to be the decision to be male, female or transgender and may or may not be the best example of ‘change’. Telling others that they need to adapt to who they really are inside through changes they need to make, and you might find it better left unsaid and adapt changes in you to tune into them. Most will say, why change? If someone doesn’t like it? Tough, it’s their loss. Let them cast aspersions.
Stick to defending who you’ve come to accept you as you are, and others need to too…no matter. Hmmmm? That’s a recipe for keeping those away who’ve set the bar higher for themselves. The only thing permanent is ‘Change’. Better that you be in charge for the change that’s inevitable anyway. The deep inner you is perfect with all the qualities that anyone can call up and make God proud.
The way out of your closet of undesirable habits; including sorrows and all clinging negative issues that are better traded in for ones that make you an entity of love that can reflect anyone else the same, and as clear as a mirror is first to decide to do it. Like with anything that needs developing, time, patience, perseverance for evolvement bring results that you sought. Seek and you shall find, and be open to help from others who’ve climbed to higher inner bars.
Drop the teflon shield from any and all criticism. Have you harbored a dystopian like nightmare within that crouches from every positive opportunity? Have you sown the seeds within for your own eventual downfall into a compartmentalized false protectiveness from the inner growth of the seeds of qualities that you don’t allow growth?
In the old testament are the names of two cities, Sodom and Gomorrah. The people of those two cities had become so perverted that they were doing all kinds of unnatural, psychological acts. The whole sexuality thing had gone astray and bizarre. Those two place must have been like California, or even Portlandia, Oregon.
The story goes that God tried hard to change these people. But to change anyone is a very difficult task, even for a God – because the very idea that somebody is trying to change you is antithetical and insulting, even if the change is for your good, and even if there is no vested interest for the person who is trying to change you. Oh, and God gave up on changing them and decided to destroy both places.
The very idea that somebody is trying to change you creates an unconscious resistance not to change. Be open to those who are more adept at something than you, and who sincerely want to give you their gifts of accomplishments. Learning to love and like yourself is in you DNA – you just need to nurture the hidden gifts, and gifts must be opened to experience the joy.
Arhata~
