July 12, 2022
Why let your love take its toll. Mend the broken wings of love!
Partner’s in bliss are real. Rare but real, and it all begins with you in a state of bliss and inner joy of who you really are. It has been called ‘enlightenment’ or the inner light being one to guide you through every moment, even in challenging ones the inner light is on. It’s like a ‘nut and bolt screwed together’. To work, they each must be compatible and if not, only great force will make them work, and most likely the connection is a dud.
‘As sure as God made little green apples’ love is mainly just a word that means a million things apart from that spark waiting to fill the soul with a fire of excitement and compassion for both ‘who you are ‘, and another feeling the same about themselves and you. When two become one, they are fulfilled and in synchronicity even wanting for the other more than for themselves.
Love on the surface, and maybe a little deeper, ‘spoils’ like old fruit if not attached to a ‘pump of self love’ that is on automatic. Marital bliss need not be formalized or it can be. Love is not obligatory but involuntary much as the sun shining everyday.
The bad news has a silver lining about love. The bad news is that people with measurable unresolved issues from childhood will never in that state reach the peaks of love… ever in that remaining state which accumulates and perpetuates that state as time goes on. You sadly become friends (?) with those issues, but not with the ‘real friend deep within’, nor anyone else’s. To see the real face of love, one has to have an open and clear heart smiling within. You’re amazing just the way you are, but that amazing part is hidden in the ‘heart of love closet’ for fear of coming out in vulnerability and freedom.
The silver lining to a choked heart and mind is that, unlike any other animal than the human species, you have the ability to detach and let go of whatever causes you misery from whatever created some form and degree of trauma a long time ago. First needed is the unrelenting intention to focus to do what opens the ‘love channels’ within. Get the ‘feeling’ that you can rise the love zone within that changes your life into as ‘it should and is meant to be.
Listen to your heart and awareness! Lose control over your attachment to the clinging negatives. Magic is to use your breath to watch what comes up. Keep slow breathing with eyes closed for many minutes (hour? And maybe short moments of 5 minutes too). Be patient. Deep love will rise, but miracles take time. Remember, ‘you are a miracle’ and this is the time to ‘reset you’ like no other time! We all need love as much as life!
Arhata~
