Verbal Sucker Punching
December 16, 2021
Ouch!
We all need more verbal, and action ‘sucker punching’, but in acts of love that come unexpectedly from someone giving with love. Life without love is a lonely life that few would want if they only knew how to reboot their own ‘self love’ that is hidden in plain access within them. My experience is that people who start a negative reaction or especially initiate a negative interaction (verbal sucker punching) are in some kind of unresolved pain within them still carried from earlier experiences.
Those who are not posed to be realistically critical of themselves are doomed to repeat negative behavior until they do depart from this planet. The best time ever to correct what’s causing mental, psychological, emotional, and spiritual barriers to loving oneself and life is to ‘initiate the intention’ to access what you need to address an acceptance of who you are at this moment, and how that blocks you from a deep self love. In a strange sense, they will be sucker punching what’s been allowed to continue to repeat as negatives within them year after year.
Loneliness, with a looming sense of depression, comes from ignoring your connection to the heart and hidden self criticism of your worth in life. That first manifests in oneself not only in repetitive, yearly sleep walking on a ‘treadmill’ that goes round and round as nothing changes. Your outlook and participation in life may have its qualities, but not for your inner happiness and joy with what’s not working for you. Are you a ‘vicim of yourself’?
What’s not working for many people you may connect with, apart from your qualities, is the negativity that you frequently shower on them. Sometimes that’s being triggered by others freedom of expression and what they regard as positive freedom of speech and interaction. Being open to positive and healthy dialog perpetuates that behavior. Why selfishly disturbs others who are sensitive to your unresolved habits manifesting themselves at others expense?
We all are ‘perfect beings’ deep within, except that most accept the ‘outer them’ as who they really think they are. With little or no care and attention given to eliminating the ‘rocks or negativity’ you are preventing them from inner joys and happiness. Couples often error in thinking that ‘lack of money’ is their overriding problem when in fact it’s their lack of ‘self love’, and a refusal to see that it’s their shorting the love within them. The mind is a wonderful thing, but only when in harmony with an open heart that closed is just a seeming immovable huge bolder to the blessings that are hidden in plain sight. Stop the mind from sucker punching yourself and others without instead showing your loving from the open heart. It’s only you who can invite lasting deep love within, or decide to stick with only the troubling mind. Love frees you for more love.
