Popsicles in the Sun
August 5, 2021
Using the wrong word today in the wrong place to the wrong person, the wrong way, etc., is likely to go over like a melting popsicle in the sun. Examples would be the ‘A’ word, the ‘B’ word, the ‘C’ word, the ‘D’ word, the ‘F’ word, the ‘G’word (gullible), the ‘H’ word, the ‘I’ word, skipping ahead, the ’N’ word, now ‘R’ word, etc. Another letter that seems under attack for misuse, sadly, is the ‘L ’word’!
‘Love’, or at least that which doesn’t stand the many trials of life, melts away sometimes in anger when seen that expectations were or not being not fulfilled. Life can be a sticky, endless situation to hide from the drip side of who you are. Time today to fess up to where all the obstacles in life are coming from, not to mention a healthy lack of solutions. Even the devil knows it’s you with clouds in the sky of your brain. Tell yourself, are you really happy in this challenging world? If it’s not a clear yes, then who better to fix it than you. You’re running out of time!
Breaking up needs to be with love and kindness instead of making it a sticky or traumatic abuse of love. The initiator of any breakup needs to use full acknowledgement of empathy and compassion. Love has its downside when allowed to sour with lack of attention, particularly with little help from those not adept at receiving and giving due to mental and heart roadblocks. Always come out of the shadows where the best of you is hidden waiting for discovery.
Getting high on stimulants rather than the love within, or with your partner, makes about as much sense as a pregnant mother looking to get high on booze and smokes ignoring the negative
karmic effects on the unborn while later wondering where they came from. Not
rocket science, that more than one is being fed who will likely grow up with a predisposition to pass on the liabilities acquired so thoughtlessly. Imagine buying a new car with used parts for a discount that makes for recurring troubles while wondering what’s happenin’.
Sustainable inner happiness begins with putting the best things in the mix. The good news is anyone can fix whatever is wrong with today’s techniques and information, and they are free! Problem is, most of the troubled are too busy struggling in life to stay afloat of being caught between the marginal good times and the persistent dark times fighting for equal time. Usually with that is a lack of inertia to stop and look at what the problem is. Of course, ignoring that it’s them! A great piece of wisdom is in this Chinese proverb -“Learning is like rowing upstream: not to advance is to drop back.”