What a pickle to be in when you find out what’s hidden under the covers! Love is most often ‘smoke and mirrors’, however most will concede it’s worth it even without having set the ‘bar of love’s possibilities’ any higher than your ancestors may have in ancient times. Smoke and embers usually replace yesterday’s magic that was collaborated by both then. Let’s put out the ‘smoke and mirrors’ leaving a very popular word called, ‘love’. As a word, it’s easy to bander about into this meaning or that. Truth is, most love is eclipsed into the dark!
Rare is a conjugal partnership of ‘alleged’ love without a ‘threesome’! Is there a man alive who hasn’t had his imagination go to 2 females in bed? Fewer females have that imagination, but coupled with those who have imagined two men instead, perhaps their imagination is not far behind!
Being deeply in love with ‘one’ person is a stretch for most let alone complicating the arrangement with another. However, rare is the couple that doesn’t have more than one in the bed with them! That ‘ghost’ in the bed is some degree of trauma from the past, most always from childhood, and exacerbated by unpleasant ongoing experiences as a result of those past issues, and piled deeper with continual ensuing ‘ghost’s of the past’. Careful who you go to bed with particularly if there is a life commitment! Rarely do people take the time to ‘own’ their past with constant efforts to rise above any ‘blocks’. One partner helps the other unknowingly to defend themselves in negative actions when initiating negativity that the other is lassoed into as a coupling reaction.
Smoke and mirror results in each blaming the other as the ‘trigger’. Agreements must be made to always take responsibility for initiating reactions resulting in both compassionately helping the other to rise above any issues. Having an unwanted guest living with you is a clear obstacle to making love a journey to rise to higher plateau’s. Two people come together to do more than acknowledge their brief experiences of lust and love with each other. Coming together just to procreate is also not enough, or is any fear of not being together sufficient. Couples NEED to see, and be dedicated to the continual growth of love, and with all its manifestations. There is no end to authentic love from the soul. Fragmented love leads to fragmented memories, and a fragmented love life in the future. Let go of any harbored thoughts toward anyone, and move on in awareness with an open heart. Everyone is a teacher, and you are the student of who they are, and what they offer, even if it’s what to avoid. The ephemeral smoking ghost doesn’t belong in a ‘rising love conscious’ coupling.
