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Category: Spiritual Relationships
Plateaued Love
Plateaued Love
April 14, 2022
Dumpster diving for yesterdays left overs of love is fruitless.
Chances are, you are going to unknowingly try that on rare
occasion. In other words, all but that hidden spark is gone or plateaued to a level that is comfortable uncomfortable. The days grow weary and slip by into months and years of destitute love, meaning just existing day to day. Looking for love in all the wrong places, even if you remember to do that, is like looking for a black cat, in a dark house, when you’re blind and deaf…and there is no cat!
Mea culpa, or it’s always time to look at ‘your’ fault in whatever happens to see the real truth. Luck might have it that, it’s really the other’s fault, but the human mind rarely can accept that
information without a reaction rather than having a conversation that either accepts that and has a question about it.
You are god’s trial and experiment in the best world right ‘here and now’ that ever was for ‘you to see the trail to shine’… at least the phone call I got this morning said so … It may not have been god, but what the heck, let’s make believe so that it becomes a motivation for now and the future. The secret of love is like the secret of gold buried just under your feet while you’re ‘sky gazing’, and miss it. ‘It’s in you’, and the good news is, you don’t need to find it in anyone else! If you do though, although not needed, that’s a ‘wow’ and god’s bonus!
Hmmm … now, that spark within you? Everyone has it,
and you do too from before birth! All you have to do is lose what negativity you
persist in hanging out with everyday, and let go of it! Let go of the chattering mind that ignores the feelings of joy in the heart. All are born into this world at this time to unravel the challenges put before us, and through the ‘breath of life’ come up for the ‘air of love’ that is in yours and every heart. You are no less than anyone from the present or the long ago past to see that you are a chosen one. Accept it and move into the light of more consciousness. Everything is ‘timing’ and that means you in tune with the universal energy of light, bliss, and joy. Love is forever, the mind is just a temporary helper. Choose the balance and know that love is in the air! Just breath it and it shall be with you. Come to the higher ‘love plateau’!
Heaven on Earth?
April 6, 2022
Will you make it to a Heaven out there, and see if it has streets of gold. The heaven out there might just be boring? Try to make it a heaven ‘here’ just in case, and just maybe it’s a requirement to the next journey? Heaven can wait? You can’t! Now is the time to make a difference. Heaven is within you, be it subject to the unknown. Be ‘the seeker’ and ultimately ‘the finder’. Has anyone been living in Heaven for a while, and come back to tell us about it? Perhaps heaven is the next dimension beyond being in ‘the physical’? Seems being in the moment with ‘high intentions’ is best.
Are you being happy submitting to ‘mind control’ by not even knowing you are a willing recipient?! Ignorance is bliss – but, is it? Are the majority making God frustrated? Is God now ‘our transgender in Heaven’ and not the ‘Father in Heaven? Is God’s home in heaven equipped with all sorts of ‘I spy technology’ to know where everyone is, and what they are doing? ‘Does God even have an algorithm computer to tune into everyone that is committing a sin? Those sins or ‘no-no’s’ also have a ‘karmic hand out device’ to suit the sin. Paying attention to ‘mother earth’ is a great idea.
Politicians and those who want to control the world have attempted to throw a wrench in our ‘heaven on earth’ with a ‘suspected ‘ man made virus beginning in 2021. This ‘heaven block’ is controversial for those researching what it really is. The question arises, where is the fine line between millenniums of flu, and that of the ‘new word of Covid-19’? Or are we being tricked into more ‘mind control’.
WE must have population controls (?), and it seems to be underway by those with a NWO agenda. The alleged ‘perpetrators of Draconian control of the populace needs to be identified and restricted. Certainly we don’t need endless population increases while waking up one day to 15 to 20 billions. Frankly, a significant proportion of the growing population act like weeds growing in a beautiful garden. Sounds cruel, but when observing the population from ‘boots on the ground’ – it’s real.
Responsible ‘birthing’ includes realizing we all don’t need to have ‘babies’ to satisfy our egos. Focusing on ‘self love’ while growing into ‘superconscious beings’ is most important for a real, better world. We were given abilities far exceeding all life on the planet to make this a world second to a so called ‘heaven’. Ever heard of ‘heaven on earth’? Time to individually and collectively devote our lives to making earth a real ‘Garden of Eden’. The 2nd Coming is here!!! It’s YOU waking up to consciousness! Walk on sunshine and enjoy the beauties of life.
Arhata~
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Truth is Unsafe
March 29, 2022
Truth is beautiful, but is the truth to you like ‘Kryptonite’ is to Superman that creates fear of the truth? The truth is ‘love’. Have you experienced it so that it has destroyed all fear of intimacy from the heart? Is your life a lie? If you don’t know who you really are, you are a lie. Do you love yourself, and are you sure? Are you in a trap of sticking with all your unresolved problems which block the hopes of baring your soul to the ultimate divineness within.
Pretty words are not the truth, instead the overwhelming experience where words become a mere shadow of that ongoing illumination within. Lay your lies to rest. The truth is that your soulmate is within you. Melting with another in perfect synchronicity is a way that will expose that you are the love by going down that ‘rabbit hole’ of letting go and finding yourself going beyond the ‘Hollywood’ perverted notion of love.
The gap between what you say and what you do, between what you promise and what you deliver, is like a drain on the road. The drain is where water escapes, just as your power will seep away if there is a difference between your words and actions. Ask someone else whose viewpoint is balanced what they see in you too. Feedback is the food of all positive change. Truth may suck, but the courage to hear it about you by allowing someone balanced in their own ‘self love’ to be able to enter into your ‘protections’ is a ‘letting go’ that lets you see who you are beyond the false attachments that have shaped your ‘fears of intimacy with love’.
You were not born with who you have allowed yourself to become. You can unlock this door with the key of waking up. Beyond it is another dimension — a dimension of sound, a dimension of sight, a dimension of mind, and most valuable, a dimension of love that is from the spiritual realm. You’re moving into a land of both shadow and substance, of things and ideas, and truth of opened eyes. You’ve just crossed over into the Reality Zone of love. Stop letting yourself be confused at who you really are, and believing who you are not.
Some of the best ‘truth sayers’ are pathological liars. The most common ‘truth sayer’ is the one who says ‘accept me as I am, meaning ‘it’s the best you’re ever going to get. In reality, positive change is never going to happen. You’re stuck with what ‘falling in love’ rather than ‘rising in love’ brought you. In today’s world, you can trade it in for a new model if you’re the only one ‘evolving’. Just make sure you are both wired for ‘love evolution’! Truth sucks sometimes, but only when you resist the truth. ‘More’ love gives birth to truth discovery as an opportunity for more bliss everyday.
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Agree to Agree
March 20, 2022
When watching a baseball game closely, you’ll see the hardly perceptible nod or blink exchange between the pitcher (sometimes the manager) and his catcher 90’ away to throw a particular pitch for a strike. Even in sports, there is always an agreement to play by the rules, and both or all agree to do so within those rules to win. We all like to be on the same preferred page as another, or in sync for a positive exchange of energy. To be in harmony for best outcomes always needs a nod of approval in alignment with the other.
Life is like a dream when you are with that rare someone who you are in perpetual harmony of agreeing to agree on everything even when it needs and asks for a greater elaboration. With genuine love, positive agreement just happens all the time! An example would be wedding vows. Wedding vows are exactly what they sound like: a solemn vow and agreement between two people on the day they become legally wed. Hopefully, they always find agreement.
Evolving people have a spoken or unspoken agreement to sensitize with the other from the heart. Often those who have difficulty in expressing from their heart attract those who also do likewise. Two hearts and minds as one is to be in compatibility and harmonious agreement. This is a time in life where people are very divided and removed from focusing on not only knowing themselves, but another. At least one must tune in from the heart to the other who hopefully is open and accepting for love to flourish no matter what, and with no expectation of acknowledgement even though it’s likely to come. Call it ‘gardening for the highest experience of love’. Be a ‘gardener of love’ to see the experience blossom.
Love has roots. Lovers can change, but the love has roots. A tree is exactly symbolic of what your love is. A tree grows roots deep under the earth, the deeper the roots go the higher the tree. It’s equal, proportionate. If the tree wants to reach the stars, then they reach deep. As it is with love in my experience. It’s as easy as agreeing to agree all the time to keep you and the other in balance. Life is about opportunities and to develop the art of finding and seeing them.
Arhata~
Deadly Love Sin
March 7, 2022
There are many ‘deal breakers’ for a real love that are beyond time, situation or place. Just as those who use a pesticide to save their crops, ultimately it is harmful to those thinking the food was grown with love and ‘best choices’ of pest control. NO ONE needs to accept any ‘sin of love’ as a pestilence to initially desired ‘continuation’ of beginning love. Love does not have to be a ‘boxing match’ otherwise known as ‘arguing’.
Just because your garden has weeds, and you use pesticides, doesn’t mean you can’t stop the poor gardening. Loving someone is often gardening of stopping weeds growth, and weeds that have endured pesticides in addition to the ‘love flowers or vegetables’ from love’s toils’. Love that has to do battle is a ‘battle love’ or like trying to read a book with a flashlight that is losing its power. Arguing is best left out of your life altogether, other than the possibility of a conscious argument with someone who we have little emotional connection with, if even that?
It’s been said, ‘opposites attract’. One thing left out? Negative opposites fertilize arguments and dissensions endlessly. Positive opposites can work beautifully with a flow of dialog instead of arguing. Why argue with yourself? If you do, you will argue with who you claim to love. Is it possible to have only a quality of love and dialog. Of course. It’s my experience, and when there is an argument initiated, and you’re a dialoguer, do your best to not engage. If you do, it’s an argument that really is the other arguing with themselves, but they see it as both arguing, when in fact the other may be defending themselves which is often futile, instead it’s prudent to use the best options of skillfully minimizing any engaging means to put out the fire of argument.
The art of loving and avoiding arguments, first begins with ‘loving yourself’. Self love is loving yourself such that you would want to be with another who possessed your inner qualities. Chances are loving the other who has a habit of initiating arguments is really saying, ‘I need your help in loving myself so I can love you with all my heart instead of ‘inconsistent love’. A Sin is to ignore or not pay attention where often that ‘sin’ has negative consequences. If you can’t talk freely without listeners quick to argue rather than relaxing and asking polite questions on your viewpoint, you’re in a fog of anything but love.
‘Believing in love’ isn’t enough. It’s too fallible. There likely is not a chance to learn love in a heaven or a continued life in another dimension. I’ve heard that we were sent here to learn how to love, as it’s easier here in a 3 dimensional body than in the spirit form. Treat love as a folly or yo yo, and how do you know you won’t have to start back here? Life isn’t a one way street unless it’s a ‘highway of love’!
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Let Go & Love 🌹
March 9, 2022
It’s simple and yet the ‘mind of endless blocks of negative memories’ is the enemy. Love your enemy away by opening the mind with incessant intent to let all negative go while letting your heart have a say too. The saying, ‘love your enemies’ means first to love the ones within, and let them go every day, every moment while keeping aware of life’s moving movie circumstances. Your enemies are ‘targets’ to let go of, but first identify them within and keep focused on letting them go out of the mind and experience. Seek circumstances that feel good and positive.
A good friend reminded me of this ‘very true’ biblical verse from 1st Corinthians Chapter 13 worth reading many, many times:
If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. And if I have prophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give away all I have, and if I deliver my body to be burned,* but have not love, I gain nothing.
Love is patient and kind; love is not jealous or boastful; it is not arrogant or rude. Love does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrong, but rejoices in the right. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
Love never ends; as for prophecies, they will pass away; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will pass away. For our knowledge is imperfect and our prophecy is imperfect; but when the perfect comes, the imperfect will pass away. When I was a child, I spoke like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child; when I became a man, I gave up childish ways. For now we see in a mirror dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall understand fully, even as I have been fully understood. So faith, hope, love abide, these three; but the greatest of these is love.
I grew up pretty sheltered from the negative in the small, coastal logging towns of Cosmopolis and Aberdeen in Washington State.. My first real painful, lingering encounter came after a year in New York City while beginning a career in the corporate world when a special love had other ideas causing great sadness and pain within for the next year. I discovered meditation and along with ‘positive thinking’, let go of the memories attachments while slowly rising beyond a ‘hurting feeling of self’, and rising consistently higher than I previously had. The inner vibration opened a love path that continues to this day. It’s the same path that awaits all who ‘let go’ and accept the rise of love within. It’s never too late and it’s earlier than it’s ever going to be. Start now- the time is right! When ‘love’ meets the road … and remember, you are like a ‘diamond in the sky’!
Arhata~
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Controlled Love 🌷
February 3, 2022
Are you a hypochondriac of love or fear of love’s power, or are you a ‘relegator of love to nonsense? Not releasing love is ‘controlling’, as well as giving it where it’s met with abuse. Debunking love is unacknowledged common by pessimistically oriented non believers who put it in the same category as ‘believing in Santa Claus’. These ‘love debunkers’ have little idea even what it means to love themselves, which in one definition is to experience feelings about themselves that leaves no gap between how they feel about themselves and the inability to imagine more. Life isn’t just about the body, including the brain and mind. You are in a borrowed housing called the body that uses a name as identification. Being a human is to allow the soul to further develop to its potential. Don’t be your own ‘downfall’!
Love is an energy with many degrees as well as infinite uses, sadly among them is to express satisfaction, often having little or no real meaning but just a saying of the mind. Love can be like foul polluted air that also pollutes the love that remains hidden within, giving out ‘poisoned love’. Love is huge but also very fragile and doesn’t mix well
with fears. The swamp is within unless cleared, and will never allow the purity of love if not cleaned up. However, as the Jewish say, when negative happens, everything is for the best as hopefully it will awaken you. Remember to think ‘it’s for the best’, and always seek for the that.
Every breath you take is a reminder that as much as you are controlled, we each need to use our brains and open heart in ways that use the best assessment of all circumstance. It’s especially needed when it comes to using the highest discernment of loving and with abandon, but hopefully not where reciprocity or intent is non caring, and sadly perhaps with no intention of changing that. ‘Cutting teeth on love’ to clear the path and is somewhat dependent on a parent acting as the good fairy with blessed loving care. If that didn’t happen, you’re in charge to find the unrequited love within.
A heart divided between what darkens it, such as being with any negative like being obsessed with the material and the efforts spent chasing that is anti love. A house divided against itself is not a home where life can pour out its heavenly, within energy. You are the ‘doctor’, and can heal most of what comes your way. Mostly no other ‘doctor’ of the physical, mental, emotional or spiritual self can provide the godly touch to fill you with the love deserved, than your inherent abilities. Blaming others for your mental and heart prisons is an immature approach. ALL CAN BE HEALED to put you on the racetrack of life and its gifts. Ask the universe to give you it’s love, and yet manage the hurts that happen as life and love is trying to throw out the roadblocks to the real you. That ‘real you’ is a taste of heaven and bliss. Transformation can be slow and sometimes arduous, but always available is ‘instant transformation’ if your intent is strong enough. Mainly, it’s prudent to keep on the path forward, upward and ‘inward’! Uncontrolled love depends on knowing when to control it and when to give with no limits and barriers.
Arhata~
Careful Who You Love
January 25, 2022
Love can be like fresh fruit. Love is a mysterious energy that is like fruit that either gets old and unrecognizable, or a magic happens and it gets better. Love at its peak is the greatest freedom while at its low point, becomes invisible as just a word. Love for each person is a unique experience with variable intensities or lack there-of. The highest love is one with neither a high or low intensity but one that reverberates consistently apart from the occasional peaks of highs and lows created by circumstances of the moment.
Always remind yourself to look at your experience with awareness of loves feelings. Love’s unobstructed flowing happens of its own accord like breathing, but know when it’s not a feeling, then likely you can’t beg, borrow, or steal to feel. When emotions go up or down, see them with the intent of awareness. Always be aware, mindful, heartfelt, and you will be awake. The mindful heart is to be ‘the awakened one’. Some call it ‘enlightenment’. To be ‘enlightened’ is to be ‘ordinary’ with a full open heart and mind. Love is a caviar for the spirit.
When your heart is in the right place, ‘everything’ will fall into the right place. Know that the mind is a tool and doesn’t need the heart, but then you are handicapped and live in a selfish, barren, shallow world that misses the inner joys and blessings of life, but also it’s not in ‘tune’ with the lives of others to use heartfelt empathy and compassion. A life primarily in the mind is the cause of the ‘world’s ills’. Time to live on a ‘prayer of goodness and pulchritudinous’. Those living to reap control and the gluttony of money need a strong ‘us’ to control them and hopefully help them see their unconscious ungodly ways.
The world needs to trade in its armies for ‘armies of love’! For this army you need to change the outer and begin preparation for battling ‘anti love habits’ that you’ve managed to become friends with. These consist of personal outer care, to habits of how you speak and listen, etiquettes, and of course substance abuse habits including smoking. Simultaneously follow the intent to make all situations that come as opportunities to convert them to the highest possible response. In addition to those mental behavior corrections, make it a point to put aside a half to an hour for the use of many forms of meditation. They will smooth over any rough edges and open the heart to spread and see more light of joy, enthusiasm, and blessings to give back to being here at the best time in life to express love. Love is fragile and how and who you give it with, the closer they are, will enhance love’s expressions, or leave love in the dark. Always choose the light where God is `synonym for a higher consciousness.
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Fear Cripples Love 🆘
January 19, 2022
Why make a life career out of your fears. Fear is a great thing! Practical fears that is like when crossing the street. Responsible fears are common sense. Fear is a mind killer when it’s not necessary. Always let fears be common sense or that which motivates you to do good.
I have a fear of heights. So to get over it while in NYC, I rented a one bedroom with a balcony on the 40th floor (of course, it was mostly because I wanted it). Occasionally I would lean against the rail to no avail to see if I conquered the fear. Also, many times I went to the top floor of the World Trade Center, again to no avail. Some things are not easy to ‘level out with’, but keep trying. I was on the shy side socially (internally I have no fears of closeness). To get over it, I gave many parties in my 20’s and 30’s and also was a Corporate salesman, and had to call or meet top executives frequently. It worked! 28 years I continue doing public free speech displays. The shyness disappeared long ago. However, with a group or even one person where I’m not ‘in charge’, I continue to have an introverted side. The key is to stay centered and calm and with acceptance of how you feel.
Years ago, in Venice Beach, I hosted a ‘fire walk’, which is a barefoot walk over hot coals in bare feet. The instructor was a large guy named Bear, who was an ex Marine who served 3 years in Vietnam with lots of combat experience. After the ‘fire walk’ he gave a talk and admitted he had one fear he was not able to concur. The fear of intimacy.
Real love expresses itself best when all blocks disappear. It’s a choice. Most of us experience ourselves as bodies and consider physical attraction and physical attachment as an expression of love. However the deepest love is spiritual and happens when two souls are able to walk in and through each others lives with total freedom. My experience is that there needs to be no barriers, no expectation, no desire for each other…at all…ever. There is complete transparency and each one is so strong within themselves that no matter what the other may say or do they can never be hurt. Once again this high spiritual destination is not easy to see, let alone reach, simply because our attention and energy has become almost constantly attached ‘down here’ in the physical. The mind is a barrier to all deep love… the mind is just a tool like a computer. Above the mind is another dimension waiting for your soul to be open to it. Let go of ‘fear of intimacy’ especially!
Arhata~
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