July 9, 2023
Truth is often less believable than fiction! Everyone has experienced having someone swear they know who you are and/or they claim to know what particular thoughts or motives you have. They are like ‘psychic invaders’ of your mind without paying more attention to their own mind that seems to know what’s in yours erroneously. The Jews have a word for that, ‘chutzpah’ or having the courage to go where there is a danger to go to. In this case, into another’s mind.
Interfering and imposing what another thinks or feels is like an invasive ‘mind surgery’ upon another or like a ‘verbal sucker punch’ initiated, especially when not asked for. We all have a ‘sovereignty’, so to speak over our mind and heart and claiming otherwise is like a ‘home invasion’, and in those cases puts the victim in an uncomfortable defensive position of trying to explain and/or defend what they really think and feel.
‘Brain linking’ or synchronizing with another mind (and heart) is either an ‘art’ that naturally occurs when ‘on the same page’. It’s not an everyday experience to find someone who you feel great trust and compatibility with, at least to some extent. When two are deeply in love both with themselves, then with each other they are in a state of perpetual meditation with each other. Sadly, most connecting often reach a level too incompatible with each other, so typically one or both learns to ‘walk on eggshells’ carefully so as not to cause forms of dissatisfied reaction. This is common in marriages and partnerships where harmony is ‘managed’ (or marginalized) by omission of truths even to the point of lying, and in some cases ‘cheating’.
