Blame Someone Else!
November 18, 2014
Accepting blame for anything is ridiculous! There are young children who are good role models where for example one blames the sibling for what ‘they’ really did. As time goes on one can only imagine the little boy who blamed another for something wrong, being drunk, and doing the same thing in any kind of accident or misfortune. It’s easier to live a life putting the onus of all problems on another! Of course, one who blames others has to convince others and himself that they do nice things too that receive the praises of those that are confused by the unthoughtful gestures.
Many partners in a marriage constantly blame the other for ‘problems’, seemingly because it’s true… at least half true. Love, real deep love never blames the other. In fact, there are no reasons to blame! Marriage or partnering in love means two lead their lives as one. In that ‘love circle’ the word blame is non existent. Blame is ‘final’ and judgmental when you could with positivity see mishaps, misjudgments, misinterpretations as just that, missing to take the opportunity to respond more affirmatively.
Blame is not a possibility coming from a person in a state of self love to themselves, especially to their beloved, or anyone for that matter. You are everyone else, and everyone else is you, as hard of a concept that may be. Deep down we all are the same but for differing inputs in each ones life like from physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual.
We all are guilty of blaming someone else in the past, and that ‘past’ is usually ‘now’! We all grow older, but a positive life is to grow up. Growing up is finding the love and compassion within yourself, and then manifesting that with others. Rare people who are in consciousness don’t need to blame anything, they accept circumstances, and look to make the best of them. Adaptability plays a part, and compassion too for others involved. ‘Make yourself’, when you break yourself of self inflictions that with sensitivity and positive energy convert to plenty of love. Time is you, you are time, time is love, be love and the color of the world changes with your choice. The proof is in my experience, and either in yours, or waiting for you as the locksmith to open the flood gate of love energy.
Come from the highest of choices available, and experiences, as well as perceptions change!
Arhata
ArhataOsho.com
