Trigger Nigger Words
March 27, 2011
Love is a trigger word if the transmitter, and receiver are on the same frequency, otherwise, it’s a meaningless sound. All five senses have the capability to trigger a response or reaction. My golden Siberian Husky is ‘triggered’ by a few words such as ‘walk’, into a ‘circus act’ happiness demonstration. If someone said the same thing in Chinese, there would be no response. We condition ourselves, and sometimes to convert any word into what we’ve elected to react/respond too, ‘even without’ knowing the meaning in which it was said! Robotic?
Universally, certain sounds trigger the same responses although it may vary according to the individuals programming. A train whistle may bring up nostalgic memories of living near the passing by of trains as a child, or it may bring up unhappy memories of something bad that happened with a train whistle involved. A crying baby, or a sigh of happiness needs no words. Smells are sometimes beyond words.
No one word or set of words should activate an emotion that adversely affects others. Conversely, words from the loving heart will evoke a positive response in the tuned in ‘receiver’. Words are powerful, and indicative of a persons energy plus or minus. Never should a receiver misinterpret ‘any word’ to satisfy their negative insecurities without a sensitive explanation of its effect on them.
It’s ok to feel a word when it brings up a negative internal reaction, but not to be attached to it. It’s really an opportunity, if attached, to examine and change that which negatively affects you. That’s called ‘maturity’. There are whole cultures of millions who actually will kill you for the use of a word, even if it has no meaning to the transmitter! Even in allegedly ‘open minded free speech USA’, there are more and more words that were not off limits a few short years ago, and are now fanatically taboo as if to ‘enable those who refuse to work though their issues’. Not that long ago, the word ‘bitch’ was an ‘aghast word’! Today ‘bitch’ is commonly used even very playfully on TV.
Love yourself internally, and all words that are ‘provoking’, change with the change within. Free speech is important in the bedroom, to full public usage. Have a meditation of doing gibberish with five of the words most offensive to you. Say them out loud with eyes closed for more than a dew minutes, then lie down with eyes closed, and just watch your thoughts for a few minutes. Repeat over a period of a few weeks, until they lose their ‘attached to meaning’. Life is to enjoy with a clear mind and heart.
rha