June 17, 2019
Ouch! To love wrongly, insufficiently, inadequately, or imperfectly is to ‘’mislove’. And, oh how it can hurt and even backfire on us. Love is medicine. Love is meditation; meditation is love!
Our prime purpose in life is to help others, and if you can’t help them at least don’t hurt them! We are the only species with the power to destroy the earth and also with the capacity to protect it. When you talk you are repeating what you already know. However, if you listen, you may learn so much new. The first thing is to always focus on ways to love yourself as much as possible while in the process still exercise as much empathy as possible for others.
What is love? Love is the absence of judgment. There isn’t any need in a way for churches, temples and various houses of worship, nor any need for complicated philosophies. The brain and heart are the temples. Use the philosophy of kindness and sensitivity. True change is within. Leave the outside as it is. The ultimate source of happiness is warm heartedness, meaning extending to others the kind of compassion we have for ourselves.
Our job is not to judge or better said not to initiate personal judgment. Try to figure out if someone deserves something and lift the hurting or fallen to help restore the broken and to heal the hurting. Let your daily conduct be motivated by helping to create a positive atmosphere for others. Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your actions. Be generous, it’s an outward expression of an inner love of self.
The planet DOES NOT NEED MORE SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE! It desperately needs more informed people who are peacemakers, healers, restorers and deep lovers of all kinds. There are only two days in the year where nothing can be done. One is called ‘yesterday’ and the other, ‘tomorrow’. So today is the right day to love, believe and live the best way possible.
Acceptance of who you are and the verbal acknowledgement of it to others close to you is a statement of character that is a secret to inner growth, and a poignant, heartfelt gesture to your love of another. Be strong, but humble to all that god has created. and know that you are the beneficiary of at this incredible time of life. The peace within comes from the heart not the mind, but the mind becomes filled with the open door of the heart’s blessings from below. Be filled with love and joy comes of it’s own accord. Real deep love is ‘perfect’!
Arhata~
