Divorce Counseling
by Arhata
August 19, 2016
The heart of empathy and compassion is the best counselor. Open up your heart and the truth comes out. Conscious partnering of two as one is to enter into a spiritual path called the love path that rises to a superconsciousness or what I call ‘lovenligtenment’. Ideally the heart becomes a part of all decision processes fully with awareness and discernment. The ordinary person flounders between internal fears, angers, insecurities, etc., that sporadically flip to sunny moments, but always back to the darker side. The few enlightened by love, live in a near ecstatic state of quiet excitement during the vast majority of their lives going forward. They look at everything realistically in the most positive way, and as an opportunity to grow.
Women are no longer just ‘baby machines’ for males to carry on their lineage, and have someone raise their (?) kids while they seek more fun on the side, which of course they deny. Any commitment of a personal nature is always a commitment to honor and respect the other person even if the other creates the perception and/or reality of not living up to that commitment. It doesn’t give the other the ethical, compassionate right to lower their highest consciousness. All love partnering needs to have an agreement to always communicate such that you are one mind, one soul, one heart, and one compassionate in understanding of the other. Problems happen when that agreement is not taken seriously.
Always the others welfare in changing the partnership needs to be a priority. Disengagement is to undo the engagement, and always should be done ‘in love’ and compassion for the other. Of course, it takes two to achieve that, but it’s high minded to know you do the best you can. Divorce is a changing of the structure of each other lives, and should be for the benefit of each although it may take a while to see that. Whatever and however one leaves any situation creates a ‘resume’ for future engagements. On a personal level it’s the most important.
How you treated anyone you loved in the past creates a ‘karma’ for future loves. It is important for new ‘companion connections’ for each other to know both’s past conditions of partnering. Personal relationships are a ‘love path’ in the spiritual world of godliness, and a divine opportunity to raise one’s consciousness and love vibration. One who has not a ‘love past’ that represents the highest values of love needs to consider using meditation to raise the ‘heart of love’ level to start again and move beyond the karma of the past.
Divorce or separation from active love is an opportunity to reflect as well as use the energy, even be it hurtful, to go deeper in self love. Now and the future is about how much love you have in the ‘love tank’ of the heart.
